I passionately believe that’s it’s not just what you say that counts, it’s also how you say it – that the success of your argument critically depends on your manner of presenting it.
ALAIN DE BOTTONGood books put a finger on emotions that are deeply our own – but that we could never have described on our own.
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Journeys are the midwives of thought. Few places are more conducive to internal conversations than moving planes, ships or trains.
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It’s perhaps easier now than ever before to make a good living; it’s perhaps harder than ever before to stay calm, to be free of career anxiety.
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Social media has lots of benefits, but compared to Christianity, it tends to group people by interests. Religion puts you with people who have nothing in common except that you’re human.
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In their different ways, art and philosophy help us, in Schopenhauer’s words, to turn pain into knowledge.
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Though it may feel otherwise, enjoying life is no more dangerous than apprehending it with continuous anxiety and gloom.
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It was no longer her absence that wounded me, but my growing indifference to it. Forgetting, however calming, was also a reminder of infidelity to what I had at one time held so dear.
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Cynics are – beneath it all – only idealists with awkwardly high standards.
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In a secularising world, art has replaced religion as a touchstone of our reverence and devotion.
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What we seek, at the deepest level, is inwardly to resemble, rather than physically to possess, the objects and places that touch us through their beauty.
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The problem is if you really believe in a society where those who merit to get to the top, get to the top, you’ll also, by implication … believe in a society where those who deserve to get to the bottom also get to the bottom and stay there.
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Architects themselves tend to shy away from the word, preferring instead to talk about the manipulation of space.
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The only way to be happy is to realise how much depends on how you look at things
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Most of what makes a book ‘good’ is that we are reading it at the right moment for us.
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William James once made an acute point about the relationship between happiness and expectation. He argued that satisfaction with ourselves does not require us to succeed in every endeavour.
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Not being understood may be taken as a sign that there is much in one to understand.
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