Not being understood may be taken as a sign that there is much in one to understand.
ALAIN DE BOTTONPolitics is so difficult, it’s generally only people who aren’t quite up to the task who feel convinced they are.
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The blunt large questions become connected to smaller, apparently esoteric ones.
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You normally have to be bashed about a bit by life to see the point of daffodils, sunsets and uneventful nice days.
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One of the better guarantors of ending up in a good relationship: an advanced capacity to be alone.
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At the heart of every frustration lies a basic structure: the collision of a wish with an unyielding reality.
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For paranoia about ‘what other people think’ : remember that only some hate, a very few love – and almost all just don’t care.
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Getting to the top has an unfortunate tendency to persuade people that the system is OK after all.
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As adults, we try to develop the character traits that would have rescued our parents.
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to design means forcing ourselves to unlearn what we believe we already know, patiently to take apart the mechanisms behind our reflexes and to acknowledge the mystery and stupefying complexity of everyday gestures like switching off a light of turning on a tap
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It was no longer her absence that wounded me, but my growing indifference to it. Forgetting, however calming, was also a reminder of infidelity to what I had at one time held so dear.
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Which seems no less relevant in the secular realm than in the religious one-that we have within us a precious, childlike, vulnerable core which we should nourish and nurture on its turbulent journey through life.
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The best cure for one’s bad tendencies is to see them in action in another person.
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Memory is… similar to anticipation: an instrument of simplification and selection.
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We will cease to be angry once we cease to be so hopeful.
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There is real danger of a disconnect between what’s on your business card and who you are deep inside, and it’s not a disconnect that the world is ready to be patient with.
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William James once made an acute point about the relationship between happiness and expectation. He argued that satisfaction with ourselves does not require us to succeed in every endeavour.
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