Every adult life could be said to be defined by two great love stories: the story of our quest for sexual love and the story of our quest for love from the world.
ALAIN DE BOTTONPolitics is so difficult, it’s generally only people who aren’t quite up to the task who feel convinced they are.
More Alain de Botton Quotes
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Intimacy is the capacity to be rather weird with someone – and finding that that’s ok with them.
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All tours are filled with humiliation. My publisher once hired a private jet to fly me to a venue where 1,000 people were waiting. It almost bankrupted him.
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Cynics are – beneath it all – only idealists with awkwardly high standards.
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The greatest difficulty of Travel is that one is forced to take oneself along.
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Being content is perhaps no less easy than playing the violin well: and requires no less practice.
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Those who divorce aren’t necessarily the most unhappy, just those neatly able to believe their misery is caused by one other person.
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Reputation matters so much only because people so seldom think for themselves.
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Sweetness is the opposite of machismo, which is everywhere-and I really don’t get on with machismo. I’m interested in sensitivity, and weakness, and fear, and anxiety, because I think that, at the end of the day, behind our masks, that’s what we are.
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We often lose our tempers not with those who are actually to blame; just with those who love us enough to forgive us our foul moods.
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The need for love hallucinates a prince or princess. The oasis complex is never a complete delusion: the man in the desert does see something on the horizon. It is just that the palms have withered, the well is dry, and the place is infected with locusts.
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A ‘good job’ can be both practically attractive while still not good enough to devote your entire life to.
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To be shown love is to feel ourselves the object of concern: our presence is noted, our name is registered, our views are listened to, our failings are treated with indulgence and our needs are ministered to. And under such care, we flourish.
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In their different ways, art and philosophy help us, in Schopenhauer’s words, to turn pain into knowledge.
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Journeys are the midwives of thought. Few places are more conducive to internal conversations than moving planes, ships or trains.
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Maturity: the confidence to have no opinions on many things.
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