Forcing people to eat together is an effective way to promote tolerance.
ALAIN DE BOTTONWe each appear to hold within ourselves a range of divergent views as to our native qualities.. And amid such uncertainty, we typically turn to the wider world to settle the question of our significance.. we seem beholden to affections of others to endure ourselves.
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We are like an exquisite high-speed aircraft which for lack of a tiny part is left stranded beside the runway, rendered slower than a tractor or bicycle.
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The inability to live in the present lies in the fear of leaving the sheltered position of anticipation or memory, and so of admitting that this is the only life that one is ever likely (heavenly intervention aside) to live.
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After 40 (old age for most of man’s history), one should strive to be more or less packed and ready to go were the end call to come.
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If our lives are dominated by a search for happiness, then perhaps few activities reveal as much about the dynamics of this quest – in all its ardour and paradoxes – than our travels.
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The materialistic view of happiness of our age starkly revealed in our understanding of the word “luxury.
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Cynics are – beneath it all – only idealists with awkwardly high standards.
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It is not just nature that defies us. Human life is as overwhelming… If we spend time in it [the vast spaces of nature], they may help us to accept more graciously the great, unfathomable events that molest our lives and will inevitably return us to dust.
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We should read other people’s books in order to learn what we feel; it is our own thoughts we should be developing, even if it is another writer’s thought that help us to do so.
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Architects themselves tend to shy away from the word, preferring instead to talk about the manipulation of space.
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The difference between hope and despair is a different way of telling stories from the same facts.
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The good parent: someone who doesn’t mind, for a time, being hated by their children.
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The blunt large questions become connected to smaller, apparently esoteric ones.
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Though it may feel otherwise, enjoying life is no more dangerous than apprehending it with continuous anxiety and gloom.
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What should worry us is not the number of people that oppose us, but how good their reasons are for doing so.
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Serious journalists often imagine society is adrift because people don’t know certain things.
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