One of the better guarantors of ending up in a good relationship: an advanced capacity to be alone.
ALAIN DE BOTTONMost good thinking has its origin in fear.
More Alain de Botton Quotes
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We are like an exquisite high-speed aircraft which for lack of a tiny part is left stranded beside the runway, rendered slower than a tractor or bicycle.
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Writing isn’t a career choice. It’s self-medication that over time precipitates the madness it was meant to ward off.
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Intuition is unconscious accumulated experience informing judgement in real time.
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Intimacy is the capacity to be rather weird with someone – and finding that that’s ok with them.
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It’s hard loving those who don’t much like themselves: “If you’re so great, why would you think I’m so great.
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Mental health: having enough safe places in your mind for your thoughts to settle.
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Maturity: knowing where you’re crazy, trying to warn others of the fact and striving to keep yourself under control.
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He did not mean to depress us, rather to free us from expectations which inspire bitterness. It is consoling, when love has let us down, to hear that happiness was never part of the plan.
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Everyone returns us to a different sense of ourselves, for we become a little of who they think we are.
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Bad art might be defined as a series of bad choices about what to show and what to leave out.
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When I see someone like Richard Dawkins, I see my father. I grew up with that. I’m basically the child of Richard Dawkins.
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It is in dialogue with pain that many beautiful things acquire their value. Acquaintance with grief turns out to be one of the more unusual prerequisites of architectural appreciation. We might, quite aside from all other requirements, need to be a little sad before buildings can properly touch us.
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One of our major flaws, and causes of unhappiness, is that we find it hard to take note of appreciate and be grateful for what is always around us. We suffer because we lose sight of the value of what is before us and yearn, often unfairly, for the imagined attraction elsewhere.
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Every adult life could be said to be defined by two great love stories: the story of our quest for sexual love and the story of our quest for love from the world.
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Our jobs make relentless calls on a narrow band of our faculties, reducing our chances of achieving rounded personalities and leaving us to suspect (often in the gathering darkness of a Sunday evening) that much of who we are, or could be, has gone unexplored.
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