The difference between hope and despair is a different way of telling stories from the same facts.
ALAIN DE BOTTONMost good thinking has its origin in fear.
More Alain de Botton Quotes
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We keep a special place in our hearts for people who refuse to be impressed by us.
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The company of certain people may excite our generosity and sensitivity, while that of others awakens our competitiveness and envy.
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William James once made an acute point about the relationship between happiness and expectation. He argued that satisfaction with ourselves does not require us to succeed in every endeavour.
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Our capacity to draw happiness from aesthetic objects or material goods in fact seems critically dependent on our first satisfying a more important range of emotional or psychological needs, among them the need for understanding, for love, expression and respect.
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Which seems no less relevant in the secular realm than in the religious one-that we have within us a precious, childlike, vulnerable core which we should nourish and nurture on its turbulent journey through life.
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Philosophy had supplied Socrates with convictions in which he had been able to have rational, as opposed to hysterical, confidence when faced with disapproval.
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My writing always came out of a very personal place, out of an attempt to stay sane.
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Sweetness is the opposite of machismo, which is everywhere-and I really don’t get on with machismo. I’m interested in sensitivity, and weakness, and fear, and anxiety, because I think that, at the end of the day, behind our masks, that’s what we are.
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A notorious inability to express emotions makes human beings the only animals capable of suicide.
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Although I don’t believe in God, Bach’s music shows me what a love of God must feel like.
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We may seek a fortune for no greater reason than to secure the respect and attention of people who would otherwise look straight through us.
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Maturity: knowing where you’re crazy, trying to warn others of the fact and striving to keep yourself under control.
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The only people we can think of as normal are those we don’t yet know very well.
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One kind of good book should leave you asking: how did the author know that about me?
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As victims of hurt, we frequently don’t bring up what ails us, because so many wounds look absurd in the light of day.
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