Maturity: the confidence to have no opinions on many things.
ALAIN DE BOTTONLiterature deserves its prestige for one reason above all others – because it’s a tool to help us live and die with a little bit more wisdom, goodness, and sanity.
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Because it’s bad enough not getting what you want, but it’s even worse to have an idea of what it is you want and find out at the end of the journey that it isn’t, in fact, what you wanted all along.
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The media insists on taking what someone didn’t mean to say as being far closer to the truth than what they did.
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Insomnia is a glamorous term for thoughts you forgot to have in the day.
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One of the unexpectedly important things that art can do for us is to teach us how to suffer more successfully.
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Never too late to learn some embarrassingly basic, stupidly obvious things about oneself.
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One of the best protections against disappointment is to have a lot going on.
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You have to be quite heavily invested in someone to do them the honour of telling them you’re annoyed with them.
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The dream of the news is that it makes us care about other people and situations. But we cannot identify with people to whom we haven’t been introduced. Humans will only respond to art, to people who are skilled in making you care.
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Rather than employing it as a supplement to active, conscious seeing, they used the medium as a substitute, paying less attention to the world than they had done previously, taking it on faith that photography automatically assured them possession of it.
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Intimacy is the capacity to be rather weird with someone – and finding that that’s ok with them.
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It’s as though either you accept [religious] doctrine and then you can have all the nice stuff, or you reject the doctrine and you’re living in some kind of spiritual wasteland under the guidance of CNN and Walmart.
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Our greatest furies spring from events which violate our sense of the ground of our existence.
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One’s doing well if age improves even slightly one’s capacity to hold on to that vital truism: “This too shall pass.
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Endeavoring to purchase something we think beautiful may in fact be the most unimaginative way of dealing with the longing it excites in us, just as trying to sleep with someone may be the bluntest response to a feeling of love.
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Though it may feel otherwise, enjoying life is no more dangerous than apprehending it with continuous anxiety and gloom.
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