Do you love me enough that I may be weak with you? Everyone loves strength, but do you love me for my weakness? That is the real test.
ALAIN DE BOTTONLiterature deserves its prestige for one reason above all others – because it’s a tool to help us live and die with a little bit more wisdom, goodness, and sanity.
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We are not always humiliated by failing; we are humiliated only if we first invest our pride and sense of worth in a given achievement and then do not reach it.
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You normally have to be bashed about a bit by life to see the point of daffodils, sunsets and uneventful nice days.
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All tours are filled with humiliation. My publisher once hired a private jet to fly me to a venue where 1,000 people were waiting. It almost bankrupted him.
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William James once made an acute point about the relationship between happiness and expectation. He argued that satisfaction with ourselves does not require us to succeed in every endeavour.
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The challenge of modern relationships: how to prove more interesting than the other’s smartphone.
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Mental health: having enough safe places in your mind for your thoughts to settle.
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One’s doing well if age improves even slightly one’s capacity to hold on to that vital truism: “This too shall pass.
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When I see someone like Richard Dawkins, I see my father. I grew up with that. I’m basically the child of Richard Dawkins.
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We will cease to be angry once we cease to be so hopeful.
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Bad art might be defined as a series of bad choices about what to show and what to leave out.
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There is a longing for a return to a time without the need for choices, free of the regret at the inevitable loss that all choice (however wonderful) has entailed.
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The only people we can think of as normal are those we don’t yet know very well.
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We study biology, physics, movements of glaciers… Where are the classes on envy, feeling wronged, despair, bitterness.
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How generous was it to offer gifts to people one knew would never accept them?
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Travel agents would be wiser to ask us what we hope to change about our lives rather than simply where we wish to go.
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