The only people we can think of as normal are those we don’t yet know very well.
ALAIN DE BOTTONLiterature deserves its prestige for one reason above all others – because it’s a tool to help us live and die with a little bit more wisdom, goodness, and sanity.
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Maturity: the confidence to have no opinions on many things.
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We need a refuge to shore up our states of mind, because so much of the world is opposed to our allegiances. We need our rooms to align us to desirable versions of ourselves and to keep alive the important, evanescent sides of us.
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I passionately believe that’s it’s not just what you say that counts, it’s also how you say it – that the success of your argument critically depends on your manner of presenting it.
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What we seek, at the deepest level, is inwardly to resemble, rather than physically to possess, the objects and places that touch us through their beauty.
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The fear of saying something stupid (which stupid people never have) has censored far more good ideas than bad ones.
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Every time we feel satisfied with what we have, we can be counted as rich, however little we may actually possess.
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A notorious inability to express emotions makes human beings the only animals capable of suicide.
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Literature deeply stands opposed to the dominant value system-the one that rewards money and power. Writers are on the other side-they make us sympathetic to ideas and feelings that are of deep importance but can’t afford airtime in a commercialized, status-consciou s, and cynical world.
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Our sadness won’t be of the searing kind but more like a blend of joy and melancholy: joy at the perfection we see before us, melancholy at an awareness of how seldom we are sufficiently blessed to encounter anything of its kind.
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Our minds are susceptible to the influence of external voices telling us what we require to be satisfied, voices that may drown out the faint sounds emitted by our souls and distract us from the careful, arduous task of accurately naming our priorities.
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Once I began to consider everything as being of potential interest, objects released latent layers of value.
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Reputation matters so much only because people so seldom think for themselves.
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Every realistic picture represents a choice as to which features of reality should be given prominence; no painting ever captures the whole.
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Curiosity might be pictured as being made up of chains of small questions extending outwards, sometimes over huge distances, from a central hub composed of a few blunt, large questions.
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One kind of good book should leave you asking: how did the author know that about me?
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