There’s a whole category of people who miss out by not allowing themselves to be weird enough.
ALAIN DE BOTTONWork finally begins when the fear of doing nothing exceeds the fear of doing it badly.
More Alain de Botton Quotes
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Intuition is unconscious accumulated experience informing judgement in real time.
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In their different ways, art and philosophy help us, in Schopenhauer’s words, to turn pain into knowledge.
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Envy: a confused, tangled guide to one’s own ambitions.
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Do you love me enough that I may be weak with you? Everyone loves strength, but do you love me for my weakness? That is the real test.
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A virtuous, ordinary life, striving for wisdom but never far from folly, is achievement enough.
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When Proust urges us to evaluate the world properly, he repeatedly reminds us of the value of modest scenes.
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The need for love hallucinates a prince or princess. The oasis complex is never a complete delusion: the man in the desert does see something on the horizon. It is just that the palms have withered, the well is dry, and the place is infected with locusts.
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Politics is so difficult, it’s generally only people who aren’t quite up to the task who feel convinced they are.
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Every realistic picture represents a choice as to which features of reality should be given prominence; no painting ever captures the whole.
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Curiosity takes ignorance seriously – and is confident enough to admit when it’s in the dark. It is aware of not knowing. And then it sets out to do something about it.
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If our lives are dominated by a search for happiness, then perhaps few activities reveal as much about the dynamics of this quest – in all its ardour and paradoxes – than our travels.
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To be shown love is to feel ourselves the object of concern: our presence is noted, our name is registered, our views are listened to, our failings are treated with indulgence and our needs are ministered to. And under such care, we flourish.
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The fear of saying something stupid (which stupid people never have) has censored far more good ideas than bad ones.
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The flawless object throws into perspective the mediocrity that surrounds it. We are reminded of the way we would wish things always to be and of how incomplete our lives remain.
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It’s hard loving those who don’t much like themselves: “If you’re so great, why would you think I’m so great.
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