I went to church and couldn’t swallow it. The music was nice but I don’t belong there.
ALAIN DE BOTTONWork finally begins when the fear of doing nothing exceeds the fear of doing it badly.
More Alain de Botton Quotes
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It seems that most of us could benefit from a brush with a near-fatal disaster to help us recognise the important things that we are too defeated or embittered to recognise from day to day.
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It’s hard loving those who don’t much like themselves: “If you’re so great, why would you think I’m so great.
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Kant and Hegel are interesting thinkers. But I am happy to insist that they are also terrible writers.
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We are not always humiliated by failing; we are humiliated only if we first invest our pride and sense of worth in a given achievement and then do not reach it.
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Yet often, they know but just don’t care. So the task of serious journalism isn’t just to lay out truths. It is to make vital truths compelling to a big audience.
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The telephone becomes an instrument of torture in the demonic hands of a beloved who doesn’t call.
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At the heart of every frustration lies a basic structure: the collision of a wish with an unyielding reality.
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One of our major flaws, and causes of unhappiness, is that we find it hard to take note of appreciate and be grateful for what is always around us. We suffer because we lose sight of the value of what is before us and yearn, often unfairly, for the imagined attraction elsewhere.
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True respectability stems not from the will of the majority but from proper reasoning.
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When you look at the Moon, you think, ‘I’m really small. What are my problems?’ It sets things into perspective. We should all look at the Moon a bit more often.
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The good parent: someone who doesn’t mind, for a time, being hated by their children.
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I learnt to stop fantasising about the perfect job or the perfect relationship because that can actually be an excuse for not living.
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In their different ways, art and philosophy help us, in Schopenhauer’s words, to turn pain into knowledge.
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What should worry us is not the number of people that oppose us, but how good their reasons are for doing so.
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Dreams reveal we never quite get ‘over’ anything: it’s all still in there somewhere.
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