People only get really interesting when they start to rattle the bars of their cages.
ALAIN DE BOTTONWork finally begins when the fear of doing nothing exceeds the fear of doing it badly.
More Alain de Botton Quotes
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We may seek a fortune for no greater reason than to secure the respect and attention of people who would otherwise look straight through us.
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Insomnia is a glamorous term for thoughts you forgot to have in the day.
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The more closely we analyze what we consider ‘sexy,’ the more clearly we will understand that eroticism is the feeling of excitement we experience at finding another human being who shares our values and our sense of the meaning of existence.
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Memory is… similar to anticipation: an instrument of simplification and selection.
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It is perhaps sad books that best console us when we are sad.
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There may be significant things to learn about people by looking at what annoys them most.
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I think people want to get married to end their emotional uncertainty. In a way, they want to end powerful feelings, or certainly the negative ones.
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What is fascinating about marriage is why anyone wants to get married.
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Perhaps it is true that we do not really exist until there is someone there to see us existing, we cannot properly speak until there is someone who can understand what we are saying in essence, we are not wholly alive until we are loved.
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As victims of hurt, we frequently don’t bring up what ails us, because so many wounds look absurd in the light of day.
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Must being in love always mean being in pain?
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Bitterness: anger that forgot where it came from.
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Everyone wants a better life: very few of us want to be better people.
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I learnt to stop fantasising about the perfect job or the perfect relationship because that can actually be an excuse for not living.
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Every realistic picture represents a choice as to which features of reality should be given prominence; no painting ever captures the whole.
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