People who readily accept the need for a gym will resist that their personalities might need some work too.
ALAIN DE BOTTONWork finally begins when the fear of doing nothing exceeds the fear of doing it badly.
More Alain de Botton Quotes
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Because the rhythm of conversation makes no allowance for dead periods, because the presence of others calls for continuous responses, we are left to regret the inanity of what we say, and the missed opportunity of what we do not.
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You have to be quite heavily invested in someone to do them the honour of telling them you’re annoyed with them.
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Dreams reveal we never quite get ‘over’ anything: it’s all still in there somewhere.
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The inability to live in the present lies in the fear of leaving the sheltered position of anticipation or memory, and so of admitting that this is the only life that one is ever likely (heavenly intervention aside) to live.
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The only people we can think of as normal are those we don’t yet know very well.
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In the gap between who we wish one day to be and who we are at present, must come pain, anxiety, envy and humiliation.
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We each appear to hold within ourselves a range of divergent views as to our native qualities.. And amid such uncertainty, we typically turn to the wider world to settle the question of our significance.. we seem beholden to affections of others to endure ourselves.
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I think people want to get married to end their emotional uncertainty. In a way, they want to end powerful feelings, or certainly the negative ones.
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There is a devilishly direct relationship between the significance of an idea and how nervous we become at the prospect of having to think about it.
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Artistic accounts involve severe abbreviations of what reality will force upon us.
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Intimacy is the capacity to be rather weird with someone – and finding that that’s ok with them.
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Being content is perhaps no less easy than playing the violin well: and requires no less practice.
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As we write, so we build: to keep a record of what matters to us.
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The greatest works of art speak to us without knowing us.
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Newspapers are being read all around. The point is not, of course, to glean new information, but rather to coax the mind out of its sleep-induced introspective temper.
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