Everyone wants a better life: very few of us want to be better people.
ALAIN DE BOTTONWe are not always humiliated by failing; we are humiliated only if we first invest our pride and sense of worth in a given achievement and then do not reach it.
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The media insists on taking what someone didn’t mean to say as being far closer to the truth than what they did.
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The good parent: someone who doesn’t mind, for a time, being hated by their children.
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Most of our childhood is stored not in photos, but in certain biscuits, lights of day, smells, textures of carpet.
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Man seems merely dust postponed: the sublime as an encounter – pleasurable, intoxicating, even – with human weakness in the face of strength, age and size of the universe.
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I learnt to stop fantasising about the perfect job or the perfect relationship because that can actually be an excuse for not living.
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The blunt large questions become connected to smaller, apparently esoteric ones.
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We study biology, physics, movements of glaciers… Where are the classes on envy, feeling wronged, despair, bitterness.
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One of the best protections against disappointment is to have a lot going on.
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A ‘good job’ can be both practically attractive while still not good enough to devote your entire life to.
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Architects themselves tend to shy away from the word, preferring instead to talk about the manipulation of space.
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The challenge for a human now is to be more interesting to another than his or her smartphone.
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The greatest works of art speak to us without knowing us.
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Most victories are, in the best way, acts of revenge.
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The mind may be reluctant to think properly when thinking is all it is supposed to do; the task can be as paralysing as having to tell a joke or mimic an accent on demand.
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It is striking how much more seriously we are likely to be taken after we have been dead a few centuries.
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