A good half of the art of living is resilience.
ALAIN DE BOTTONWe are not always humiliated by failing; we are humiliated only if we first invest our pride and sense of worth in a given achievement and then do not reach it.
More Alain de Botton Quotes
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Serious journalists often imagine society is adrift because people don’t know certain things.
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Yet often, they know but just don’t care. So the task of serious journalism isn’t just to lay out truths. It is to make vital truths compelling to a big audience.
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What kills us isn’t one big thing, but thousands of tiny obligations we can’t turn down for fear of disappointing others.
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Work is most fulfilling when you’re at the comfortable, exciting edge of not quite knowing what you are doing.
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Cynics are – beneath it all – only idealists with awkwardly high standards.
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What is fascinating about marriage is why anyone wants to get married.
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Architects themselves tend to shy away from the word, preferring instead to talk about the manipulation of space.
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At the heart of every frustration lies a basic structure: the collision of a wish with an unyielding reality.
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In their different ways, art and philosophy help us, in Schopenhauer’s words, to turn pain into knowledge.
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The activities of drawing, eating and drinking, all involve assimilations by the self of desirable elements from the world, a transfer of goodness from without to within.
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The greatest difficulty of Travel is that one is forced to take oneself along.
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If our lives are dominated by a search for happiness, then perhaps few activities reveal as much about the dynamics of this quest – in all its ardour and paradoxes – than our travels.
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The mind may be reluctant to think properly when thinking is all it is supposed to do; the task can be as paralysing as having to tell a joke or mimic an accent on demand.
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One of our major flaws, and causes of unhappiness, is that we find it hard to take note of appreciate and be grateful for what is always around us. We suffer because we lose sight of the value of what is before us and yearn, often unfairly, for the imagined attraction elsewhere.
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Those who divorce aren’t necessarily the most unhappy, just those neatly able to believe their misery is caused by one other person.
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