We each appear to hold within ourselves a range of divergent views as to our native qualities.. And amid such uncertainty, we typically turn to the wider world to settle the question of our significance.. we seem beholden to affections of others to endure ourselves.
ALAIN DE BOTTONFor paranoia about ‘what other people think’ : remember that only some hate, a very few love – and almost all just don’t care.
More Alain de Botton Quotes
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One of the best protections against disappointment is to have a lot going on.
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Every time we feel satisfied with what we have, we can be counted as rich, however little we may actually possess.
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My writing always came out of a very personal place, out of an attempt to stay sane.
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It is not just nature that defies us. Human life is as overwhelming… If we spend time in it [the vast spaces of nature], they may help us to accept more graciously the great, unfathomable events that molest our lives and will inevitably return us to dust.
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We don’t really learn anything properly until there is a problem, until we are in pain, until something fails to go as we had hoped … We suffer, therefore we think.
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Most victories are, in the best way, acts of revenge.
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Only by declaring a book completely finished can one start to see how much remains to be done on it.
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People only get really interesting when they start to rattle the bars of their cages.
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So many complaints boil down to the belly ache of the fragile, mortal, ignored ego in a vast and indifferent universe.
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It’s perhaps easier now than ever before to make a good living; it’s perhaps harder than ever before to stay calm, to be free of career anxiety.
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The challenge for a human now is to be more interesting to another than his or her smartphone.
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You have to be quite heavily invested in someone to do them the honour of telling them you’re annoyed with them.
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Philosophy had supplied Socrates with convictions in which he had been able to have rational, as opposed to hysterical, confidence when faced with disapproval.
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Social media has lots of benefits, but compared to Christianity, it tends to group people by interests. Religion puts you with people who have nothing in common except that you’re human.
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Never too late to learn some embarrassingly basic, stupidly obvious things about oneself.
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