Yet often, they know but just don’t care. So the task of serious journalism isn’t just to lay out truths. It is to make vital truths compelling to a big audience.
ALAIN DE BOTTONIn the works of Lucretius, we find two reasons why we shouldn’t worry about death. If you have had a successful life, Lucretius tell us, there’s no reason to mind its end. And, if you haven’t had a good time, “Why do you seek to add more years, which would also pass but ill?”
More Alain de Botton Quotes
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Not being understood may be taken as a sign that there is much in one to understand.
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A successful work will draw out the features capable of exciting a sense of beauty and interest in the spectator.
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I went to church and couldn’t swallow it. The music was nice but I don’t belong there.
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He did not mean to depress us, rather to free us from expectations which inspire bitterness. It is consoling, when love has let us down, to hear that happiness was never part of the plan.
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One of the unexpectedly important things that art can do for us is to teach us how to suffer more successfully.
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Good sex isn’t just fun, it keeps us sane and happy. Having sex with someone makes us feel wanted, alive and potent.
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Forgiveness requires a sense that bad behaviour is a sign of suffering rather than malice.
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So many complaints boil down to the belly ache of the fragile, mortal, ignored ego in a vast and indifferent universe.
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What I want to argue for is not that we should give up on our ideas of success, but that we should make sure that they are our own. We should focus in on our ideas and make sure that we own them, that we’re truly the authors of our own ambitions.
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Perhaps it is true that we do not really exist until there is someone there to see us existing, we cannot properly speak until there is someone who can understand what we are saying in essence, we are not wholly alive until we are loved.
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Must being in love always mean being in pain?
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We are not always humiliated by failing; we are humiliated only if we first invest our pride and sense of worth in a given achievement and then do not reach it.
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Dreams reveal we never quite get ‘over’ anything: it’s all still in there somewhere.
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One of the better guarantors of ending up in a good relationship: an advanced capacity to be alone.
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One’s doing well if age improves even slightly one’s capacity to hold on to that vital truism: “This too shall pass.
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