We will cease to be angry once we cease to be so hopeful.
ALAIN DE BOTTONOne of the best protections against disappointment is to have a lot going on.
More Alain de Botton Quotes
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At the heart of every frustration lies a basic structure: the collision of a wish with an unyielding reality.
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The mind does most of its best thinking when we aren’t there. The answers are there in the morning.
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Though it may feel otherwise, enjoying life is no more dangerous than apprehending it with continuous anxiety and gloom.
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Architects themselves tend to shy away from the word, preferring instead to talk about the manipulation of space.
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Art cannot single-handedly create enthusiasm… it merely contributes to enthusiasm and guides us to be more conscious of feelings that we might previously have experienced only tentatively or hurriedly.
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Good books put a finger on emotions that are deeply our own – but that we could never have described on our own.
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Newspapers are being read all around. The point is not, of course, to glean new information, but rather to coax the mind out of its sleep-induced introspective temper.
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The finest proof of our loyalty toward one another was our monstrous disloyalties towards everyone else.
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There is no such thing as work-life balance. Everything worth fighting for unbalances your life.
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Mental health: having enough safe places in your mind for your thoughts to settle.
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What should worry us is not the number of people that oppose us, but how good their reasons are for doing so.
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The more closely we analyze what we consider ‘sexy,’ the more clearly we will understand that eroticism is the feeling of excitement we experience at finding another human being who shares our values and our sense of the meaning of existence.
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Our minds are susceptible to the influence of external voices telling us what we require to be satisfied, voices that may drown out the faint sounds emitted by our souls and distract us from the careful, arduous task of accurately naming our priorities.
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When you look at the Moon, you think, ‘I’m really small. What are my problems?’ It sets things into perspective. We should all look at the Moon a bit more often.
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In the oasis complex, the thirsty man images he sees water, palm trees, and shade not because he has evidence for the belief, but because he has a need for it. Desperate needs bring about a hallucination of their solution: thirst hallucinates water.
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