Unnatural to expect that learning to be happy should be any easier than, say, learning to play the violin or require any less practice.
ALAIN DE BOTTONWe are like an exquisite high-speed aircraft which for lack of a tiny part is left stranded beside the runway, rendered slower than a tractor or bicycle.
More Alain de Botton Quotes
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Our greatest furies spring from events which violate our sense of the ground of our existence.
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The only people we can think of as normal are those we don’t yet know very well.
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Everyone wants a better life: very few of us want to be better people.
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Art holds out the promise of inner wholeness.
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When work is not going well, it’s useful to remember that our identities stretch beyond what is on the business card, that we were people long before we became workers – and will continue to be human once we have put our tools down forever.
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After 40 (old age for most of man’s history), one should strive to be more or less packed and ready to go were the end call to come.
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The arrogance that says analysing the relationship between reasons and causes is more important than writing a philosophy of shyness or sadness or friendship drives me nuts. I can’t accept that.
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Maturity: knowing where you’re crazy, trying to warn others of the fact and striving to keep yourself under control.
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William James once made an acute point about the relationship between happiness and expectation. He argued that satisfaction with ourselves does not require us to succeed in every endeavour.
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Newspapers are being read all around. The point is not, of course, to glean new information, but rather to coax the mind out of its sleep-induced introspective temper.
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There may be significant things to learn about people by looking at what annoys them most.
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When I see someone like Richard Dawkins, I see my father. I grew up with that. I’m basically the child of Richard Dawkins.
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Forcing people to eat together is an effective way to promote tolerance.
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Our homes do not have to offer us permanent occupancy or store our clothes to merit the name. To speak of home in relation to a building is simply to recognise its harmony with our own prized internal song. Home can be an airport or a library, a garden or a motorway diner.
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It is perhaps sad books that best console us when we are sad.
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