Mental health: having enough safe places in your mind for your thoughts to settle.
ALAIN DE BOTTONOne of the better guarantors of ending up in a good relationship: an advanced capacity to be alone.
More Alain de Botton Quotes
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Most good thinking has its origin in fear.
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A danger of travel is that we see things at the wrong time, before we have had a chance to build up the necessary receptivity and when new information is therefore as useless and fugitive as necklace beads without a connecting chain.
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The fear of saying something stupid (which stupid people never have) has censored far more good ideas than bad ones.
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Intuition is unconscious accumulated experience informing judgement in real time.
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The greatest difficulty of Travel is that one is forced to take oneself along.
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What am I supposed to do here? What am I supposed to think?
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What is fascinating about marriage is why anyone wants to get married.
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I think people want to get married to end their emotional uncertainty. In a way, they want to end powerful feelings, or certainly the negative ones.
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Travel agents would be wiser to ask us what we hope to change about our lives rather than simply where we wish to go.
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As we write, so we build: to keep a record of what matters to us.
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Our responses to the world are crucially moulded by the company we keep, for we temper our curiosity to fit in with the expectations of others.
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The dream of the news is that it makes us care about other people and situations. But we cannot identify with people to whom we haven’t been introduced. Humans will only respond to art, to people who are skilled in making you care.
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Cynics are – beneath it all – only idealists with awkwardly high standards.
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The longing for a destiny is no nowhere stronger than in our romantic life. All too often forced to share our bed with those who cannot fathom our soul, can we not be forgiven if we believe ourselves fated to stumble one day upon the man or woman of our dreams.
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It was no longer her absence that wounded me, but my growing indifference to it. Forgetting, however calming, was also a reminder of infidelity to what I had at one time held so dear.
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