Artistic accounts involve severe abbreviations of what reality will force upon us.
ALAIN DE BOTTONOne of the better guarantors of ending up in a good relationship: an advanced capacity to be alone.
More Alain de Botton Quotes
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The telephone becomes an instrument of torture in the demonic hands of a beloved who doesn’t call.
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Maturity: the confidence to have no opinions on many things.
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Those who divorce aren’t necessarily the most unhappy, just those neatly able to believe their misery is caused by one other person.
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Most anger stems from feelings of weakness, sadness and fear: hard to remember when one is at the receiving end of its defiant roar.
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Unhappiness can stem from having only one perspective to play with.
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I went to church and couldn’t swallow it. The music was nice but I don’t belong there.
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There is always the option of being emotionally lazy, that is, of quoting.
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Intuition is unconscious accumulated experience informing judgement in real time.
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How do the stems connect to the roots?’ ‘Where is the mist coming from?’ ‘Why does one tree seem darker than another?’ These questions are implicitly asked and answered in the process of sketching.
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Everyone returns us to a different sense of ourselves, for we become a little of who they think we are.
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An argument in a couple: 2 people attempting to introduce each other to important truths – by panicked shouting.
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The best cure for one’s bad tendencies is to see them in action in another person.
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For paranoia about ‘what other people think’ : remember that only some hate, a very few love – and almost all just don’t care.
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True respectability stems not from the will of the majority but from proper reasoning.
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One of our major flaws, and causes of unhappiness, is that we find it hard to take note of appreciate and be grateful for what is always around us. We suffer because we lose sight of the value of what is before us and yearn, often unfairly, for the imagined attraction elsewhere.
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