What should worry us is not the number of people that oppose us, but how good their reasons are for doing so.
ALAIN DE BOTTONSweetness is the opposite of machismo, which is everywhere-and I really don’t get on with machismo. I’m interested in sensitivity, and weakness, and fear, and anxiety, because I think that, at the end of the day, behind our masks, that’s what we are.
More Alain de Botton Quotes
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One of the best protections against disappointment is to have a lot going on.
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The longing for destiny is nowhere stronger than in our romantic life.
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When you look at the Moon, you think, ‘I’m really small. What are my problems?’ It sets things into perspective. We should all look at the Moon a bit more often.
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Maturity: knowing where you’re crazy, trying to warn others of the fact and striving to keep yourself under control.
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A virtuous, ordinary life, striving for wisdom but never far from folly, is achievement enough.
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The good parent: someone who doesn’t mind, for a time, being hated by their children.
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Endeavoring to purchase something we think beautiful may in fact be the most unimaginative way of dealing with the longing it excites in us, just as trying to sleep with someone may be the bluntest response to a feeling of love.
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The problem isn’t so much finding good ideas (there is no shortage) as embedding the ones we have into everyday practice.
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As we write, so we build: to keep a record of what matters to us.
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Reputation matters so much only because people so seldom think for themselves.
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There is a longing for a return to a time without the need for choices, free of the regret at the inevitable loss that all choice (however wonderful) has entailed.
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Bitterness: anger that forgot where it came from.
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It is perhaps when our lives are at their most problematic that we are likely to be most receptive to beautiful things.
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Memory is… similar to anticipation: an instrument of simplification and selection.
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We need objects to remind us of the commitments we’ve made. That carpet from Morocco reminds us of the impulsive, freedom-loving side of ourselves we’re in danger of losing touch with. Beautiful furniture gives us something to live up to. All designed objects are propaganda for a way of life.
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