Art holds out the promise of inner wholeness.
ALAIN DE BOTTONSweetness is the opposite of machismo, which is everywhere-and I really don’t get on with machismo. I’m interested in sensitivity, and weakness, and fear, and anxiety, because I think that, at the end of the day, behind our masks, that’s what we are.
More Alain de Botton Quotes
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Bad art might be defined as a series of bad choices about what to show and what to leave out.
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The only way to be happy is to realise how much depends on how you look at things
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Cynics are – beneath it all – only idealists with awkwardly high standards.
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In the works of Lucretius, we find two reasons why we shouldn’t worry about death. If you have had a successful life, Lucretius tell us, there’s no reason to mind its end. And, if you haven’t had a good time, “Why do you seek to add more years, which would also pass but ill?”
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What is fascinating about marriage is why anyone wants to get married.
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A virtuous, ordinary life, striving for wisdom but never far from folly, is achievement enough.
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There may be significant things to learn about people by looking at what annoys them most.
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A notorious inability to express emotions makes human beings the only animals capable of suicide.
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Our homes do not have to offer us permanent occupancy or store our clothes to merit the name. To speak of home in relation to a building is simply to recognise its harmony with our own prized internal song. Home can be an airport or a library, a garden or a motorway diner.
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Most victories are, in the best way, acts of revenge.
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Once I began to consider everything as being of potential interest, objects released latent layers of value.
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The arrogance that says analysing the relationship between reasons and causes is more important than writing a philosophy of shyness or sadness or friendship drives me nuts. I can’t accept that.
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Our capacity to draw happiness from aesthetic objects or material goods in fact seems critically dependent on our first satisfying a more important range of emotional or psychological needs, among them the need for understanding, for love, expression and respect.
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My writing always came out of a very personal place, out of an attempt to stay sane.
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Which seems no less relevant in the secular realm than in the religious one-that we have within us a precious, childlike, vulnerable core which we should nourish and nurture on its turbulent journey through life.
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