When Proust urges us to evaluate the world properly, he repeatedly reminds us of the value of modest scenes.
ALAIN DE BOTTONSweetness is the opposite of machismo, which is everywhere-and I really don’t get on with machismo. I’m interested in sensitivity, and weakness, and fear, and anxiety, because I think that, at the end of the day, behind our masks, that’s what we are.
More Alain de Botton Quotes
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The fear of saying something stupid (which stupid people never have) has censored far more good ideas than bad ones.
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Being content is perhaps no less easy than playing the violin well: and requires no less practice.
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One rarely falls in love without being as much attracted to what is interestingly wrong with someone as what is objectively healthy.
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For paranoia about ‘what other people think’ : remember that only some hate, a very few love – and almost all just don’t care.
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Unnatural to expect that learning to be happy should be any easier than, say, learning to play the violin or require any less practice.
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There’s a whole category of people who miss out by not allowing themselves to be weird enough.
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There are selections so acute that they come to define a place, with the result that we can no longer travel through that landscape without being reminded of what a great artist noticed there.
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Architects themselves tend to shy away from the word, preferring instead to talk about the manipulation of space.
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Arguments are like eels: however logical, they may slip from the minds weak grasp unless fixed there by imagery and style.
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How generous was it to offer gifts to people one knew would never accept them?
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Our homes do not have to offer us permanent occupancy or store our clothes to merit the name. To speak of home in relation to a building is simply to recognise its harmony with our own prized internal song. Home can be an airport or a library, a garden or a motorway diner.
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In the oasis complex, the thirsty man images he sees water, palm trees, and shade not because he has evidence for the belief, but because he has a need for it. Desperate needs bring about a hallucination of their solution: thirst hallucinates water.
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The finest proof of our loyalty toward one another was our monstrous disloyalties towards everyone else.
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The greatest works of art speak to us without knowing us.
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Artistic accounts involve severe abbreviations of what reality will force upon us.
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