Most of our childhood is stored not in photos, but in certain biscuits, lights of day, smells, textures of carpet.
ALAIN DE BOTTONYou have to be quite heavily invested in someone to do them the honour of telling them you’re annoyed with them.
More Alain de Botton Quotes
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Not being understood may be taken as a sign that there is much in one to understand.
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Envy: a confused, tangled guide to one’s own ambitions.
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It wasn’t only fanatics and drunkards who began conversations with strangers in public.
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Journeys are the midwives of thought. Few places are more conducive to internal conversations than moving planes, ships or trains.
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If we are inclined to forget how much there is in the world besides that which we anticipate, then works of art are perhaps a little to blame, for in them we find at work the same process of simplification or selection as in the imagination.
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In a secularising world, art has replaced religion as a touchstone of our reverence and devotion.
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A successful work will draw out the features capable of exciting a sense of beauty and interest in the spectator.
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Most victories are, in the best way, acts of revenge.
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People who readily accept the need for a gym will resist that their personalities might need some work too.
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The telephone becomes an instrument of torture in the demonic hands of a beloved who doesn’t call.
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Memory is… similar to anticipation: an instrument of simplification and selection.
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The longing for a destiny is no nowhere stronger than in our romantic life. All too often forced to share our bed with those who cannot fathom our soul, can we not be forgiven if we believe ourselves fated to stumble one day upon the man or woman of our dreams.
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There may be significant things to learn about people by looking at what annoys them most.
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The company of certain people may excite our generosity and sensitivity, while that of others awakens our competitiveness and envy.
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Rage is caused by a conviction, almost comic in its optimistic origins (however tragic in its effects), that a given frustration has not been written into the contract of life.
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