Once I began to consider everything as being of potential interest, objects released latent layers of value.
ALAIN DE BOTTONYou have to be quite heavily invested in someone to do them the honour of telling them you’re annoyed with them.
More Alain de Botton Quotes
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What is a snob? A snob is anybody who takes a small part of you and uses that to come to a complete vision of who you are. That is snobbery.
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What is fascinating about marriage is why anyone wants to get married.
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We often lose our tempers not with those who are actually to blame; just with those who love us enough to forgive us our foul moods.
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Work is most fulfilling when you’re at the comfortable, exciting edge of not quite knowing what you are doing.
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Without sex, we would be dangerously invulnerable. We might believe we were not ridiculous. We wouldn’t know rejection and humiliation so intimately.
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Booksellers are the most valuable destination for the lonely, given the numbers of books that were written because authors couldn’t find anyone to talk to.
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Taking photographs can assuage the itch for possession sparked by the beauty of a place; our anxiety over losing a precious scene can decline with every click of the shutter.
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I went to church and couldn’t swallow it. The music was nice but I don’t belong there.
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I feel that the great challenge of our time is the communication of ideas.
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These inventors were elevating the formulation of entrepreneurial ideas to the status of a visionary activity. Though forced to justify their efforts in the pragmatic language of venture capital, they were at heart utopian thinkers intent on transforming the world.
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Although I don’t believe in God, Bach’s music shows me what a love of God must feel like.
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Perhaps it is true that we do not really exist until there is someone there to see us existing, we cannot properly speak until there is someone who can understand what we are saying in essence, we are not wholly alive until we are loved.
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To one’s enemies: “I hate myself more than you ever could.
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One rarely falls in love without being as much attracted to what is interestingly wrong with someone as what is objectively healthy.
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It is not just nature that defies us. Human life is as overwhelming… If we spend time in it [the vast spaces of nature], they may help us to accept more graciously the great, unfathomable events that molest our lives and will inevitably return us to dust.
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