It’s perhaps easier now than ever before to make a good living; it’s perhaps harder than ever before to stay calm, to be free of career anxiety.
ALAIN DE BOTTONWhat is fascinating about marriage is why anyone wants to get married.
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The happiness that may emerge from taking a second look is central to Proust’s therapeutic conception. It reveals the extent to which our dissatisfactions may be the result of failing to look properly at our lives rather than the result of anything inherently deficient about them.
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My writing always came out of a very personal place, out of an attempt to stay sane.
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How do the stems connect to the roots?’ ‘Where is the mist coming from?’ ‘Why does one tree seem darker than another?’ These questions are implicitly asked and answered in the process of sketching.
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The challenge of modern relationships: how to prove more interesting than the other’s smartphone.
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We are all more intelligent than we are capable, and awareness of the insanity of love has never saved anyone from the disease.
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It was no longer her absence that wounded me, but my growing indifference to it. Forgetting, however calming, was also a reminder of infidelity to what I had at one time held so dear.
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The flawless object throws into perspective the mediocrity that surrounds it. We are reminded of the way we would wish things always to be and of how incomplete our lives remain.
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The mind does most of its best thinking when we aren’t there. The answers are there in the morning.
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Must being in love always mean being in pain?
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Our minds are susceptible to the influence of external voices telling us what we require to be satisfied, voices that may drown out the faint sounds emitted by our souls and distract us from the careful, arduous task of accurately naming our priorities.
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Feeling lost, crazy and desperate belongs to a good life as much as optimism, certainty and reason.
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Most of our childhood is stored not in photos, but in certain biscuits, lights of day, smells, textures of carpet.
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Good sex isn’t just fun, it keeps us sane and happy. Having sex with someone makes us feel wanted, alive and potent.
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Only as we mature does affection begin to depend on achievement.
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Writing isn’t a career choice. It’s self-medication that over time precipitates the madness it was meant to ward off.
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