One of the best protections against disappointment is to have a lot going on.
ALAIN DE BOTTONWhat is fascinating about marriage is why anyone wants to get married.
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The mind may be reluctant to think properly when thinking is all it is supposed to do; the task can be as paralysing as having to tell a joke or mimic an accent on demand.
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Not everyone is worth listening to.
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Must being in love always mean being in pain?
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It’s hard loving those who don’t much like themselves: “If you’re so great, why would you think I’m so great.
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Anyone who isn’t embarrassed of who they were last year probably isn’t learning enough.
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Man seems merely dust postponed: the sublime as an encounter – pleasurable, intoxicating, even – with human weakness in the face of strength, age and size of the universe.
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Socrates, on being insulted in the marketplace, asked by a passerby, “Don’t you worry about being called names?” retorted, “Why? Do you think I should resent it if an ass had kicked me?
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How generous was it to offer gifts to people one knew would never accept them?
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The need for love hallucinates a prince or princess. The oasis complex is never a complete delusion: the man in the desert does see something on the horizon. It is just that the palms have withered, the well is dry, and the place is infected with locusts.
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Work finally begins when the fear of doing nothing exceeds the fear of doing it badly.
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Dreams reveal we never quite get ‘over’ anything: it’s all still in there somewhere.
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What I want to argue for is not that we should give up on our ideas of success, but that we should make sure that they are our own. We should focus in on our ideas and make sure that we own them, that we’re truly the authors of our own ambitions.
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What is fascinating about marriage is why anyone wants to get married.
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The flawless object throws into perspective the mediocrity that surrounds it. We are reminded of the way we would wish things always to be and of how incomplete our lives remain.
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One rarely falls in love without being as much attracted to what is interestingly wrong with someone as what is objectively healthy.
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