Everyone returns us to a different sense of ourselves, for we become a little of who they think we are.
ALAIN DE BOTTONWhat is fascinating about marriage is why anyone wants to get married.
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Paying tax should be framed as a glorious civic duty worthy of gratitude – not a punishment for making money.
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Our sadness won’t be of the searing kind but more like a blend of joy and melancholy: joy at the perfection we see before us, melancholy at an awareness of how seldom we are sufficiently blessed to encounter anything of its kind.
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Unnatural to expect that learning to be happy should be any easier than, say, learning to play the violin or require any less practice.
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The moment we cry in a film is not when things are sad but when they turn out to be more beautiful than we expected them to be.
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Man seems merely dust postponed: the sublime as an encounter – pleasurable, intoxicating, even – with human weakness in the face of strength, age and size of the universe.
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William James once made an acute point about the relationship between happiness and expectation. He argued that satisfaction with ourselves does not require us to succeed in every endeavour.
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Everyone wants a better life: very few of us want to be better people.
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Most of our childhood is stored not in photos, but in certain biscuits, lights of day, smells, textures of carpet.
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Bad art might be defined as a series of bad choices about what to show and what to leave out.
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Only by declaring a book completely finished can one start to see how much remains to be done on it.
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True love is a lack of desire to check one’s smartphone in another’s presence.
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You normally have to be bashed about a bit by life to see the point of daffodils, sunsets and uneventful nice days.
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True respectability stems not from the will of the majority but from proper reasoning.
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Anyone who isn’t embarrassed of who they were last year probably isn’t learning enough.
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I feel that the great challenge of our time is the communication of ideas.
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