When you look at the Moon, you think, ‘I’m really small. What are my problems?’ It sets things into perspective. We should all look at the Moon a bit more often.
ALAIN DE BOTTONLiterature is the greatest reality simulator – a machine that puts you through infinitely more situations than you can ever directly witness.
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Endeavoring to purchase something we think beautiful may in fact be the most unimaginative way of dealing with the longing it excites in us, just as trying to sleep with someone may be the bluntest response to a feeling of love.
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A ‘good job’ can be both practically attractive while still not good enough to devote your entire life to.
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Everyone wants a better life: very few of us want to be better people.
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There is a longing for a return to a time without the need for choices, free of the regret at the inevitable loss that all choice (however wonderful) has entailed.
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Most victories are, in the best way, acts of revenge.
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Must being in love always mean being in pain?
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We should not feel embarrassed by our difficulties, only by our failure to grow anything beautiful from them.
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There is a devilishly direct relationship between the significance of an idea and how nervous we become at the prospect of having to think about it.
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Out of the millions of people we live among, most of whom we habitually ignore and are ignored by in turn, there are always a few that hold hostage our capacity for happiness, whom we could recognize by their smell alone and whom we would rather die than be without.
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Although I don’t believe in God, Bach’s music shows me what a love of God must feel like.
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The problem isn’t so much finding good ideas (there is no shortage) as embedding the ones we have into everyday practice.
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There is real danger of a disconnect between what’s on your business card and who you are deep inside, and it’s not a disconnect that the world is ready to be patient with.
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What should worry us is not the number of people that oppose us, but how good their reasons are for doing so.
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To be shown love is to feel ourselves the object of concern: our presence is noted, our name is registered, our views are listened to, our failings are treated with indulgence and our needs are ministered to. And under such care, we flourish.
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We read the weird tales in newspapers to crowd out the even weirder stuff inside us.
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