Literature is the greatest reality simulator – a machine that puts you through infinitely more situations than you can ever directly witness.
ALAIN DE BOTTONThe good parent: someone who doesn’t mind, for a time, being hated by their children.
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Getting to the top has an unfortunate tendency to persuade people that the system is OK after all.
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You normally have to be bashed about a bit by life to see the point of daffodils, sunsets and uneventful nice days.
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People who readily accept the need for a gym will resist that their personalities might need some work too.
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Our greatest furies spring from events which violate our sense of the ground of our existence.
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Kant and Hegel are interesting thinkers. But I am happy to insist that they are also terrible writers.
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We will cease to be angry once we cease to be so hopeful.
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One of the better guarantors of ending up in a good relationship: an advanced capacity to be alone.
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When I see someone like Richard Dawkins, I see my father. I grew up with that. I’m basically the child of Richard Dawkins.
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Our responses to the world are crucially moulded by the company we keep, for we temper our curiosity to fit in with the expectations of others.
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We are presented with an unpleasant choice between either committing to peculiar concepts about immaterial deities or letting go entirely of a host of consoling, subtle or just charming rituals for which we struggle to find equivalents in secular society.
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Cynics are – beneath it all – only idealists with awkwardly high standards.
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If one felt successful, there’d be so little incentive to be successful.
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Anyone who isn’t embarrassed of who they were last year probably isn’t learning enough.
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After 40 (old age for most of man’s history), one should strive to be more or less packed and ready to go were the end call to come.
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The company of certain people may excite our generosity and sensitivity, while that of others awakens our competitiveness and envy.
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