Anyone who isn’t embarrassed of who they were last year probably isn’t learning enough.
ALAIN DE BOTTONSocial media has lots of benefits, but compared to Christianity, it tends to group people by interests. Religion puts you with people who have nothing in common except that you’re human.
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It seems that most of us could benefit from a brush with a near-fatal disaster to help us recognise the important things that we are too defeated or embittered to recognise from day to day.
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How do the stems connect to the roots?’ ‘Where is the mist coming from?’ ‘Why does one tree seem darker than another?’ These questions are implicitly asked and answered in the process of sketching.
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Those who divorce aren’t necessarily the most unhappy, just those neatly able to believe their misery is caused by one other person.
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A danger of travel is that we see things at the wrong time, before we have had a chance to build up the necessary receptivity and when new information is therefore as useless and fugitive as necklace beads without a connecting chain.
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When work is not going well, it’s useful to remember that our identities stretch beyond what is on the business card, that we were people long before we became workers – and will continue to be human once we have put our tools down forever.
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Only by declaring a book completely finished can one start to see how much remains to be done on it.
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Feeling lost, crazy and desperate belongs to a good life as much as optimism, certainty and reason.
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You have to be quite heavily invested in someone to do them the honour of telling them you’re annoyed with them.
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In their different ways, art and philosophy help us, in Schopenhauer’s words, to turn pain into knowledge.
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We study biology, physics, movements of glaciers… Where are the classes on envy, feeling wronged, despair, bitterness.
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As adults, we try to develop the character traits that would have rescued our parents.
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The fear of saying something stupid (which stupid people never have) has censored far more good ideas than bad ones.
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All tours are filled with humiliation. My publisher once hired a private jet to fly me to a venue where 1,000 people were waiting. It almost bankrupted him.
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Don’t despair: despair suggests you are in total control and know what is coming. You don’t – surrender to events with hope.
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One of our major flaws, and causes of unhappiness, is that we find it hard to take note of appreciate and be grateful for what is always around us. We suffer because we lose sight of the value of what is before us and yearn, often unfairly, for the imagined attraction elsewhere.
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