Good books put a finger on emotions that are deeply our own – but that we could never have described on our own.
ALAIN DE BOTTONFeeling lost, crazy and desperate belongs to a good life as much as optimism, certainty and reason.
More Alain de Botton Quotes
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As an atheist, I think there are lots of things religions get up to which are of value to non-believers – and one of those things is trying to be a bit better than we normally manage to be.
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For paranoia about ‘what other people think’ : remember that only some hate, a very few love – and almost all just don’t care.
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The challenge of modern relationships: how to prove more interesting than the other’s smartphone.
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When I see someone like Richard Dawkins, I see my father. I grew up with that. I’m basically the child of Richard Dawkins.
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William James once made an acute point about the relationship between happiness and expectation. He argued that satisfaction with ourselves does not require us to succeed in every endeavour.
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The good parent: someone who doesn’t mind, for a time, being hated by their children.
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Most good thinking has its origin in fear.
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Although I don’t believe in God, Bach’s music shows me what a love of God must feel like.
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We study biology, physics, movements of glaciers… Where are the classes on envy, feeling wronged, despair, bitterness.
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Literature deeply stands opposed to the dominant value system-the one that rewards money and power. Writers are on the other side-they make us sympathetic to ideas and feelings that are of deep importance but can’t afford airtime in a commercialized, status-consciou s, and cynical world.
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Dreams reveal we never quite get ‘over’ anything: it’s all still in there somewhere.
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There is always the option of being emotionally lazy, that is, of quoting.
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Work finally begins when the fear of doing nothing exceeds the fear of doing it badly.
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Most of our childhood is stored not in photos, but in certain biscuits, lights of day, smells, textures of carpet.
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If we are inclined to forget how much there is in the world besides that which we anticipate, then works of art are perhaps a little to blame, for in them we find at work the same process of simplification or selection as in the imagination.
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