Every realistic picture represents a choice as to which features of reality should be given prominence; no painting ever captures the whole.
ALAIN DE BOTTONFeeling lost, crazy and desperate belongs to a good life as much as optimism, certainty and reason.
More Alain de Botton Quotes
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Although I don’t believe in God, Bach’s music shows me what a love of God must feel like.
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Art holds out the promise of inner wholeness.
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In the gap between who we wish one day to be and who we are at present, must come pain, anxiety, envy and humiliation.
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Endeavoring to purchase something we think beautiful may in fact be the most unimaginative way of dealing with the longing it excites in us, just as trying to sleep with someone may be the bluntest response to a feeling of love.
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The more closely we analyze what we consider ‘sexy,’ the more clearly we will understand that eroticism is the feeling of excitement we experience at finding another human being who shares our values and our sense of the meaning of existence.
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Happiness is impossible for longer than 15 minutes. We are the descendants of creatures who, above all else, worried.
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It is perhaps sad books that best console us when we are sad.
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As we write, so we build: to keep a record of what matters to us.
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The telephone becomes an instrument of torture in the demonic hands of a beloved who doesn’t call.
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What am I supposed to do here? What am I supposed to think?
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The arrogance that says analysing the relationship between reasons and causes is more important than writing a philosophy of shyness or sadness or friendship drives me nuts. I can’t accept that.
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As victims of hurt, we frequently don’t bring up what ails us, because so many wounds look absurd in the light of day.
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Most of us still caged within careers chosen for us by our not entirely worldly 18-22 year old selves.
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We keep a special place in our hearts for people who refuse to be impressed by us.
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We should read other people’s books in order to learn what we feel; it is our own thoughts we should be developing, even if it is another writer’s thought that help us to do so.
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