Do you love me enough that I may be weak with you? Everyone loves strength, but do you love me for my weakness? That is the real test.
ALAIN DE BOTTONNot everyone is worth listening to.
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The very act of drawing an object, however badly, swiftly takes the drawer from a woolly sense of what the object looks like to a precise awareness of its component parts and particularities.
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You have to be quite heavily invested in someone to do them the honour of telling them you’re annoyed with them.
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One of the better guarantors of ending up in a good relationship: an advanced capacity to be alone.
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The mind does most of its best thinking when we aren’t there. The answers are there in the morning.
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Once I began to consider everything as being of potential interest, objects released latent layers of value.
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We need a home in the psychological sense as much as we need one in the physical: to compensate for a vulnerability.
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The need for love hallucinates a prince or princess. The oasis complex is never a complete delusion: the man in the desert does see something on the horizon. It is just that the palms have withered, the well is dry, and the place is infected with locusts.
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Every adult life could be said to be defined by two great love stories: the story of our quest for sexual love and the story of our quest for love from the world.
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I passionately believe that’s it’s not just what you say that counts, it’s also how you say it – that the success of your argument critically depends on your manner of presenting it.
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What we seek, at the deepest level, is inwardly to resemble, rather than physically to possess, the objects and places that touch us through their beauty.
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What am I supposed to do here? What am I supposed to think?
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Arguments are like eels: however logical, they may slip from the minds weak grasp unless fixed there by imagery and style.
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The difference between hope and despair is a different way of telling stories from the same facts.
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We each appear to hold within ourselves a range of divergent views as to our native qualities.. And amid such uncertainty, we typically turn to the wider world to settle the question of our significance.. we seem beholden to affections of others to endure ourselves.
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Everyone returns us to a different sense of ourselves, for we become a little of who they think we are.
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