A ‘good job’ can be both practically attractive while still not good enough to devote your entire life to.
ALAIN DE BOTTONNot everyone is worth listening to.
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There is always the option of being emotionally lazy, that is, of quoting.
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We read the weird tales in newspapers to crowd out the even weirder stuff inside us.
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Insomnia is a glamorous term for thoughts you forgot to have in the day.
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Not being understood may be taken as a sign that there is much in one to understand.
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We study biology, physics, movements of glaciers… Where are the classes on envy, feeling wronged, despair, bitterness.
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The fear of saying something stupid (which stupid people never have) has censored far more good ideas than bad ones.
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The only way to be happy is to realise how much depends on how you look at things
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I passionately believe that’s it’s not just what you say that counts, it’s also how you say it – that the success of your argument critically depends on your manner of presenting it.
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It is striking how much more seriously we are likely to be taken after we have been dead a few centuries.
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Most victories are, in the best way, acts of revenge.
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We are not always humiliated by failing; we are humiliated only if we first invest our pride and sense of worth in a given achievement and then do not reach it.
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Every adult life could be said to be defined by two great love stories: the story of our quest for sexual love and the story of our quest for love from the world.
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If we are inclined to forget how much there is in the world besides that which we anticipate, then works of art are perhaps a little to blame, for in them we find at work the same process of simplification or selection as in the imagination.
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We need a home in the psychological sense as much as we need one in the physical: to compensate for a vulnerability.
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It was no longer her absence that wounded me, but my growing indifference to it. Forgetting, however calming, was also a reminder of infidelity to what I had at one time held so dear.
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