That she might not actually know us seemed the humblest thing a mother could admit.
AIMEE BENDERThe writing I tend to think of as ‘good’ is good because it’s mysterious.
More Aimee Bender Quotes
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You feel wonderful, you feel like somebody knows you’re alive, you feel fear because it could be a bomb, because you think you’re that important.
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I admired that stride; it was like he folded space in two with it.
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As soon as you laugh from nerves or make a joke or say something just to say something or get all involved with the bushes, then you blow open a window in your house of desire and it can’t heat up as well. Cold draft comes in.
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It was like we were exchanging codes, on how to be a father and a daughter, like we’d read about it in a manual, translated from another language, and were doing our best with what we could understand.
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My lover is experiencing reverse evolution.
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I give boring people something to discuss over corn.
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I am the drying meadow; you the unspoken apology; he is the fluctuating distance between mother and son.
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We hit the sidewalk, and dropped hands. How I wished, right then, that the whole world was a street.
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Listen. Look. Desire is a house. Desire needs closed space. Desire runs out of doors or windows, or slats or pinpricks, it can’t fit under the sky, too large. Close the doors. Close the windows.
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Mom flipped through the magazines like the pages needed to be slapped.
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You can ruin anything if you focus at it.
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If everything kept to its normal progression, we would live with the sadness-cry and then walk-but what really breaks us cleanest are the losses that happen out of order.
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It seemed to happen in springs, the revealing of things.
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A Dorito asks nothing of you, which is its great gift. It only asks that you are not there.
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I am not happy, help me — like a message in a bottle sent in each meal to the eater, and I got it. I got the message.
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