The most so far, because she found the saddest thing of all to be the simple truth of her capacity to move on.
AIMEE BENDERThe writing I tend to think of as ‘good’ is good because it’s mysterious.
More Aimee Bender Quotes
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Large meadows are lovely for picnics and romping, but they are for the lighter feelings. Meadows do not make me want to write.
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I give boring people something to discuss over corn.
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I felt the crumpled paper that had taken the place of my lungs expand as if released from a fist.
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I’m obsessed with adolescence. I love to write about people in their 20s.
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This is why everyone who eats a Whopper leaves a little more depressed than they were when they came in. Nobody cooked that burger.
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With my hand in his, I looked at all the apartment buildings with rushes of love, peering in the wide streetside windows that revealed living rooms painted in dark burgandies and matte reds.
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I knew if I ate anything of hers again, it would lkely tell me the same message: help me,
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It is so often surprising, who rescues you at your lowest moments.
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And the warmth of the music inside her, did she believe, for even one glorious second, that her passion had arrived?
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The stories themselves haunt, they stick around, they linger, inhabiting a little corner of the reader’s brain and resurfacing to evoke mystery or sadness or longing.
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We’re all getting too smart. Our brains are just getting bigger and bigger, and the world dries up and dies when there’s too much thought and not enough heart.
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It seems the best work I do is when I am really allowing the unconscious to rule the page and then later I can go back and hack around and make sense of things.
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Mom flipped through the magazines like the pages needed to be slapped.
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Mom loved my brother more. Not that she didn’t love me – I felt the wash of her love every day.
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It was like we were exchanging codes, on how to be a father and a daughter, like we’d read about it in a manual, translated from another language, and were doing our best with what we could understand.
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