I felt the crumpled paper that had taken the place of my lungs expand as if released from a fist.
AIMEE BENDERThe writing I tend to think of as ‘good’ is good because it’s mysterious.
More Aimee Bender Quotes
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It was a fleeting statement, one I didn’t think she’d hold on to; after all, she had birthed us alone, diapered and fed us, helped us with homework, kissed and hugged us, poured her love into us.
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As soon as you laugh from nerves or make a joke or say something just to say something or get all involved with the bushes, then you blow open a window in your house of desire and it can’t heat up as well. Cold draft comes in.
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It seems the best work I do is when I am really allowing the unconscious to rule the page and then later I can go back and hack around and make sense of things.
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That’s the thing with handmade items. They still have the person’s mark on them, and when you hold them, you feel less alone.
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If everything kept to its normal progression, we would live with the sadness-cry and then walk-but what really breaks us cleanest are the losses that happen out of order.
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My lover is experiencing reverse evolution.
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You’re the perfect girl’, he said, rubbing his chin. ‘You expect nothing.
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I am not happy, help me — like a message in a bottle sent in each meal to the eater, and I got it. I got the message.
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Light is good company, when alone; I took my comfort where I found it, and the warmest yellow bulb in the living-room lamp had become a kind of radiant babysitter all its own.
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Before she knew it was candles, did she think she’d done it herself? With the amazing turns of her hips.
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Kissing George was a little like rolling in caramel after spending years surviving off rice sticks.
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I watched as she added a question mark at the end. Arc, line, space, dot.
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As a writer you ask yourself to dream while awake.
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Mom flipped through the magazines like the pages needed to be slapped.
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Large meadows are lovely for picnics and romping, but they are for the lighter feelings. Meadows do not make me want to write.
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