When the light at Vernon turned green, we stepped into the street and George grabbed my hand and the ghosts of our younger selves crossed with us.
AIMEE BENDERIf everything kept to its normal progression, we would live with the sadness-cry and then walk-but what really breaks us cleanest are the losses that happen out of order.
More Aimee Bender Quotes
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I like birthday cake. It’s so symbolic. It’s a tempting symbol to load with something more complicated than just ‘Happy birthday!’ because it’s this emblem of childhood and a happy day.
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It seemed to happen in springs, the revealing of things.
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It is so often surprising, who rescues you at your lowest moments.
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And the warmth of the music inside her, did she believe, for even one glorious second, that her passion had arrived?
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The writing I tend to think of as ‘good’ is good because it’s mysterious.
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I knew if I ate anything of hers again, it would lkely tell me the same message: help me,
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My genes, my love, are rubber bands and rope; make yourself a structure you can live inside. Amen.” – Aimee Bender (Willful Creatures: Stories)
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I didn’t mind the quiet stretches. It was like we were trying out the idea of being side by side.
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My lover is experiencing reverse evolution.
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Mom loved my brother more. Not that she didn’t love me – I felt the wash of her love every day.
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As a writer you ask yourself to dream while awake.
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Sometimes, she said, mostly to herself, I feel I do not know my children…
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It was a fleeting statement, one I didn’t think she’d hold on to; after all, she had birthed us alone, diapered and fed us, helped us with homework, kissed and hugged us, poured her love into us.
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Light is good company, when alone; I took my comfort where I found it, and the warmest yellow bulb in the living-room lamp had become a kind of radiant babysitter all its own.
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I peeled the skin off a grape in slippery little triangles, and I understood then that I would be undressing every item of food I could because my clothes would be staying on.
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