As soon as you laugh from nerves or make a joke or say something just to say something or get all involved with the bushes, then you blow open a window in your house of desire and it can’t heat up as well. Cold draft comes in.
AIMEE BENDERIt’s such a fraught and exciting and kind of horrible time.
More Aimee Bender Quotes
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I watched as she added a question mark at the end. Arc, line, space, dot.
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Listen. Look. Desire is a house. Desire needs closed space. Desire runs out of doors or windows, or slats or pinpricks, it can’t fit under the sky, too large. Close the doors. Close the windows.
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Many kids, it seemed, would find out that their parents were flawed, messed-up people later in life, and I didn’t appreciate getting to know it all so strong and early.
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This is why everyone who eats a Whopper leaves a little more depressed than they were when they came in. Nobody cooked that burger.
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It is so often surprising, who rescues you at your lowest moments.
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Mom flipped through the magazines like the pages needed to be slapped.
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The wine glasses are empty except for that one undrinkable red spot at the bottom.
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My eyelids are my own private cave, he murmured. That I can go to anytime I want.
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Pouring over me, but it was a different kind, siphoned from a different, and tamer, body of water. I was her darling daughter; Joseph was her it.
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It was a fleeting statement, one I didn’t think she’d hold on to; after all, she had birthed us alone, diapered and fed us, helped us with homework, kissed and hugged us, poured her love into us.
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I’m obsessed with adolescence. I love to write about people in their 20s.
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My genes, my love, are rubber bands and rope; make yourself a structure you can live inside. Amen.” – Aimee Bender (Willful Creatures: Stories)
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I felt the crumpled paper that had taken the place of my lungs expand as if released from a fist.
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You try, you seem totally nuts, you go underground.
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Not getting bored of my own story and/or character is one of the main struggles.
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