It was a fleeting statement, one I didn’t think she’d hold on to; after all, she had birthed us alone, diapered and fed us, helped us with homework, kissed and hugged us, poured her love into us.
AIMEE BENDERYou feel wonderful, you feel like somebody knows you’re alive, you feel fear because it could be a bomb, because you think you’re that important.
More Aimee Bender Quotes
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That she might not actually know us seemed the humblest thing a mother could admit.
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But what I kept wondering about is this: that first second when she felt her skirt burning, what did she think?
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As a writer you ask yourself to dream while awake.
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I admired that stride; it was like he folded space in two with it.
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You can ruin anything if you focus at it.
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I peeled the skin off a grape in slippery little triangles, and I understood then that I would be undressing every item of food I could because my clothes would be staying on.
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That’s the thing with handmade items. They still have the person’s mark on them, and when you hold them, you feel less alone.
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Mom loved my brother more. Not that she didn’t love me – I felt the wash of her love every day.
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Listen. Look. Desire is a house. Desire needs closed space. Desire runs out of doors or windows, or slats or pinpricks, it can’t fit under the sky, too large. Close the doors. Close the windows.
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That at the same time of this very intimate act of concentrating so carefully on the details of our mother’s palm and fingertips.
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I knew if I ate anything of hers again, it would lkely tell me the same message: help me,
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Many kids, it seemed, would find out that their parents were flawed, messed-up people later in life, and I didn’t appreciate getting to know it all so strong and early.
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My lover is experiencing reverse evolution.
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I have had with novel writing, and I have put to bed big chunks of work that just didn’t sustain my interest.
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To see someone you love, in a bad setting, is one of the great barometers of gratitude.
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