As soon as you laugh from nerves or make a joke or say something just to say something or get all involved with the bushes, then you blow open a window in your house of desire and it can’t heat up as well. Cold draft comes in.
AIMEE BENDERYou feel wonderful, you feel like somebody knows you’re alive, you feel fear because it could be a bomb, because you think you’re that important.
More Aimee Bender Quotes
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Kissing George was a little like rolling in caramel after spending years surviving off rice sticks.
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It is all about numbers. It is all about sequence. It’s the mathematical logic of being alive.
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As a writer you ask yourself to dream while awake.
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and I get refill number three or four and the wine is making my bones loose and it’s giving my hair a red sheen and my breasts are blooming and my eyes feel sultry and wise and the dress is water.
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Light is good company, when alone; I took my comfort where I found it, and the warmest yellow bulb in the living-room lamp had become a kind of radiant babysitter all its own.
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While she cut the mushrooms, she cried more than she had at the grave.
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The most so far, because she found the saddest thing of all to be the simple truth of her capacity to move on.
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The stories themselves haunt, they stick around, they linger, inhabiting a little corner of the reader’s brain and resurfacing to evoke mystery or sadness or longing.
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You’re the perfect girl’, he said, rubbing his chin. ‘You expect nothing.
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It was a fleeting statement, one I didn’t think she’d hold on to; after all, she had birthed us alone, diapered and fed us, helped us with homework, kissed and hugged us, poured her love into us.
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But what I kept wondering about is this: that first second when she felt her skirt burning, what did she think?
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Mom flipped through the magazines like the pages needed to be slapped.
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I peeled the skin off a grape in slippery little triangles, and I understood then that I would be undressing every item of food I could because my clothes would be staying on.
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The writing I tend to think of as ‘good’ is good because it’s mysterious.
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I was right at the edge of their circle, like the tail of a Q…
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