The most so far, because she found the saddest thing of all to be the simple truth of her capacity to move on.
AIMEE BENDERMom flipped through the magazines like the pages needed to be slapped.
More Aimee Bender Quotes
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We’re all getting too smart. Our brains are just getting bigger and bigger, and the world dries up and dies when there’s too much thought and not enough heart.
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The writing I tend to think of as ‘good’ is good because it’s mysterious.
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I could feel the tears beginning to collect in my throat again, but I pushed them apart, away from each other. Tears are only a threat in groups.
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But I loved George in part because he believed me; because if I stood in a cold, plain room and yelled FIRE, he would walk over and ask me why.
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Mom loved my brother more. Not that she didn’t love me – I felt the wash of her love every day.
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It’s such a fraught and exciting and kind of horrible time.
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Sometimes, she said, mostly to herself, I feel I do not know my children…
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I like birthday cake. It’s so symbolic. It’s a tempting symbol to load with something more complicated than just ‘Happy birthday!’ because it’s this emblem of childhood and a happy day.
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As soon as you laugh from nerves or make a joke or say something just to say something or get all involved with the bushes, then you blow open a window in your house of desire and it can’t heat up as well. Cold draft comes in.
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You feel wonderful, you feel like somebody knows you’re alive, you feel fear because it could be a bomb, because you think you’re that important.
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Pouring over me, but it was a different kind, siphoned from a different, and tamer, body of water. I was her darling daughter; Joseph was her it.
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But what I kept wondering about is this: that first second when she felt her skirt burning, what did she think?
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I have had with novel writing, and I have put to bed big chunks of work that just didn’t sustain my interest.
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To see someone you love, in a bad setting, is one of the great barometers of gratitude.
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When the light at Vernon turned green, we stepped into the street and George grabbed my hand and the ghosts of our younger selves crossed with us.
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