It is all about numbers. It is all about sequence. It’s the mathematical logic of being alive.
AIMEE BENDERAs a writer you ask yourself to dream while awake.
More Aimee Bender Quotes
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Large meadows are lovely for picnics and romping, but they are for the lighter feelings. Meadows do not make me want to write.
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The most so far, because she found the saddest thing of all to be the simple truth of her capacity to move on.
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I am the drying meadow; you the unspoken apology; he is the fluctuating distance between mother and son.
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When language is treated beautifully and interestingly, it can feel good for the body: It’s nourishing; it’s rejuvenating.
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It was like we were exchanging codes, on how to be a father and a daughter, like we’d read about it in a manual, translated from another language, and were doing our best with what we could understand.
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Pouring over me, but it was a different kind, siphoned from a different, and tamer, body of water. I was her darling daughter; Joseph was her it.
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But what I kept wondering about is this: that first second when she felt her skirt burning, what did she think?
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When the light at Vernon turned green, we stepped into the street and George grabbed my hand and the ghosts of our younger selves crossed with us.
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But the sky is interesting, it changes all the time.
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It was a fleeting statement, one I didn’t think she’d hold on to; after all, she had birthed us alone, diapered and fed us, helped us with homework, kissed and hugged us, poured her love into us.
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That’s the thing with handmade items. They still have the person’s mark on them, and when you hold them, you feel less alone.
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Light is good company, when alone; I took my comfort where I found it, and the warmest yellow bulb in the living-room lamp had become a kind of radiant babysitter all its own.
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That she might not actually know us seemed the humblest thing a mother could admit.
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I want to be violated by insight.
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To see someone you love, in a bad setting, is one of the great barometers of gratitude.
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