The child can find out what the object ..might be only by finding ..obstacles to its access
ADAM PHILLIPSEverybody is dealing with how much of their own aliveness they can bear and how much they need to anesthetize themselves.
More Adam Phillips Quotes
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There is always a ..belief that by destroying the thing that we love we destroy our needs
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Sanity, in other words, becomes a pressing preoccupation as soon as we recognize the importance of recognition.
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You write to find out what you believe.
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One thing you discover in psychoanalytic treatment is the limits of what you can change about yourself or your life.
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Tragic heroes are failed pragmatists. Their ends are unrealistic and their means are impractical.
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The child..will try to make himself..independent of other people. .
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Believing in religion is like believing that adulthood is the solution to childhood.
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It is as if to say: if these are not valued – if these forms of wanting and feeling and speaking and doing – are not cultivated and encouraged and rewarded in the child, then the child will be mad.
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Everybody is dealing with how much of their own aliveness they can bear and how much they need to anesthetize themselves.
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Wanting to be understood, as adults, can be our most violent form of nostalgia.
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The big secret about Art is that no one wants it to be true.
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We have been taught to wish for it, but the wish to be understood may be our most vengeful demand, may be the way we hang on, as adults ,
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The vocabulary of one’s self-criticism is so impoverished and clichéd.
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There is nothing more terrorizing than the possibility that nothing is hidden.
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We are at our most stupid in our self-hatred.
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