To keep faith with recognition we have to stay recognizable.
ADAM PHILLIPSEverybody is dealing with how much of their own aliveness they can bear and how much they need to anesthetize themselves.
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The child can find out what the object ..might be only by finding ..obstacles to its access
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Tragic heroes are failed pragmatists. Their ends are unrealistic and their means are impractical.
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To our grudge against our mothers; the way we never let our mothers off the hook for their not meeting our every need.
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Transgression is a quest for solitude
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Sanity, as the project of keeping ourselves recognizably human, therefore has to limit the range of human experience.
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Wanting to be understood, as adults, can be our most violent form of nostalgia.
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There is nothing more terrorizing than the possibility that nothing is hidden.
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When we define ourselves by what we can recognize, by what we can comprehend- rather than, say, by what we can describe
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We are children for a very long time.
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Lovers, of course, are notoriously frantic epistemologists, second only to paranoiacs (and analysts) as readers of signs and wonders.
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The child [uses] ‘doubt about food to hide doubt about love.’
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Everybody is dealing with how much of their own aliveness they can bear and how much they need to anesthetize themselves.
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One thing you discover in psychoanalytic treatment is the limits of what you can change about yourself or your life.
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Sanity, in other words, becomes a pressing preoccupation as soon as we recognize the importance of recognition.
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We are tyrannized by our blind spots, and by whatever it is about ourselves that we find unacceptable.
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