People change, but there really are limits.
ADAM PHILLIPSEverybody is dealing with how much of their own aliveness they can bear and how much they need to anesthetize themselves.
More Adam Phillips Quotes
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One thing you discover in psychoanalytic treatment is the limits of what you can change about yourself or your life.
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we are continually under threat from what we are unwilling and/or unable to see.
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Lovers, of course, are notoriously frantic epistemologists, second only to paranoiacs (and analysts) as readers of signs and wonders.
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The big secret about Art is that no one wants it to be true.
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Transgression is a quest for solitude
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You write to find out what you believe.
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Sanity, as the project of keeping ourselves recognizably human, therefore has to limit the range of human experience.
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We are children for a very long time.
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I am always true to myself, that is the problem. Who else could I be true to?
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There is always a ..belief that by destroying the thing that we love we destroy our needs
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There is nothing more scandalous than a happy marriage
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When we define ourselves by what we can recognize, by what we can comprehend- rather than, say, by what we can describe
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We are at our most stupid in our self-hatred.
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To our grudge against our mothers; the way we never let our mothers off the hook for their not meeting our every need.
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Believing in religion is like believing that adulthood is the solution to childhood.
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