Everybody is dealing with how much of their own aliveness they can bear and how much they need to anesthetize themselves.
ADAM PHILLIPSwe are continually under threat from what we are unwilling and/or unable to see.
More Adam Phillips Quotes
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We are at our most stupid in our self-hatred.
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Monogamy is a way of getting the versions of ourselves down to the minimum.
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There is always a ..belief that by destroying the thing that we love we destroy our needs
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There is nothing more scandalous than a happy marriage
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Sanity, as the project of keeping ourselves recognizably human, therefore has to limit the range of human experience.
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We have been taught to wish for it, but the wish to be understood may be our most vengeful demand, may be the way we hang on, as adults ,
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The big secret about Art is that no one wants it to be true.
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To keep faith with recognition we have to stay recognizable.
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We are tyrannized by our blind spots, and by whatever it is about ourselves that we find unacceptable.
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Excesses of appetite are self-cures for feelings of hopelessness. ..
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When we define ourselves by what we can recognize, by what we can comprehend- rather than, say, by what we can describe
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we are continually under threat from what we are unwilling and/or unable to see.
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The whole notion of sanity may be an attempt to medicalize morality – to speak of the good in the language of health: to make us more accurate, more scientific in our wanting – but by the same token it becomes a form of moral blackmail.
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People change, but there really are limits.
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Sanity, in other words, becomes a pressing preoccupation as soon as we recognize the importance of recognition.
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