The child..will try to make himself..independent of other people. .
ADAM PHILLIPSThere is always a ..belief that by destroying the thing that we love we destroy our needs
More Adam Phillips Quotes
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Wanting to be understood, as adults, can be our most violent form of nostalgia.
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To grow up is to discover what one is unequal to.
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Excesses of appetite are self-cures for feelings of hopelessness. ..
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There is nothing more terrorizing than the possibility that nothing is hidden.
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Tragic heroes are failed pragmatists. Their ends are unrealistic and their means are impractical.
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To keep faith with recognition we have to stay recognizable.
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The big secret about Art is that no one wants it to be true.
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Transgression is a quest for solitude
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I am always true to myself, that is the problem. Who else could I be true to?
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Believing in religion is like believing that adulthood is the solution to childhood.
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We are tyrannized by our blind spots, and by whatever it is about ourselves that we find unacceptable.
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Lovers, of course, are notoriously frantic epistemologists, second only to paranoiacs (and analysts) as readers of signs and wonders.
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It is as if to say: if these are not valued – if these forms of wanting and feeling and speaking and doing – are not cultivated and encouraged and rewarded in the child, then the child will be mad.
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We are children for a very long time.
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we are continually under threat from what we are unwilling and/or unable to see.
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