Wanting to be understood, as adults, can be our most violent form of nostalgia.
ADAM PHILLIPSOne thing you discover in psychoanalytic treatment is the limits of what you can change about yourself or your life.
More Adam Phillips Quotes
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The past influences everything and dictates nothing.
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We are children for a very long time.
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Transgression is a quest for solitude
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To our grudge against our mothers; the way we never let our mothers off the hook for their not meeting our every need.
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You write to find out what you believe.
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Excesses of appetite are self-cures for feelings of hopelessness. ..
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Lovers, of course, are notoriously frantic epistemologists, second only to paranoiacs (and analysts) as readers of signs and wonders.
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Monogamy is a way of getting the versions of ourselves down to the minimum.
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To keep faith with recognition we have to stay recognizable.
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Sanity, in other words, becomes a pressing preoccupation as soon as we recognize the importance of recognition.
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The child..will try to make himself..independent of other people. .
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There is nothing more scandalous than a happy marriage
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The big secret about Art is that no one wants it to be true.
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The vocabulary of one’s self-criticism is so impoverished and clichéd.
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The whole notion of sanity may be an attempt to medicalize morality – to speak of the good in the language of health: to make us more accurate, more scientific in our wanting – but by the same token it becomes a form of moral blackmail.
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