To keep faith with recognition we have to stay recognizable.
ADAM PHILLIPSSanity, as the project of keeping ourselves recognizably human, therefore has to limit the range of human experience.
More Adam Phillips Quotes
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We have been taught to wish for it, but the wish to be understood may be our most vengeful demand, may be the way we hang on, as adults ,
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You write to find out what you believe.
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Sanity, in other words, becomes a pressing preoccupation as soon as we recognize the importance of recognition.
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The past influences everything and dictates nothing.
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Everybody is dealing with how much of their own aliveness they can bear and how much they need to anesthetize themselves.
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The vocabulary of one’s self-criticism is so impoverished and clichéd.
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The child can find out what the object ..might be only by finding ..obstacles to its access
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To our grudge against our mothers; the way we never let our mothers off the hook for their not meeting our every need.
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When we define ourselves by what we can recognize, by what we can comprehend- rather than, say, by what we can describe
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There is always a ..belief that by destroying the thing that we love we destroy our needs
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Tragic heroes are failed pragmatists. Their ends are unrealistic and their means are impractical.
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I am always true to myself, that is the problem. Who else could I be true to?
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We are at our most stupid in our self-hatred.
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we are continually under threat from what we are unwilling and/or unable to see.
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Monogamy is a way of getting the versions of ourselves down to the minimum.
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