We are tyrannized by our blind spots, and by whatever it is about ourselves that we find unacceptable.
ADAM PHILLIPSSanity, as the project of keeping ourselves recognizably human, therefore has to limit the range of human experience.
More Adam Phillips Quotes
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The past influences everything and dictates nothing.
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The vocabulary of one’s self-criticism is so impoverished and clichéd.
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Monogamy is a way of getting the versions of ourselves down to the minimum.
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One thing you discover in psychoanalytic treatment is the limits of what you can change about yourself or your life.
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To our grudge against our mothers; the way we never let our mothers off the hook for their not meeting our every need.
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There is always a ..belief that by destroying the thing that we love we destroy our needs
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Sanity, in other words, becomes a pressing preoccupation as soon as we recognize the importance of recognition.
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Tragic heroes are failed pragmatists. Their ends are unrealistic and their means are impractical.
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There is nothing more scandalous than a happy marriage
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Everybody is dealing with how much of their own aliveness they can bear and how much they need to anesthetize themselves.
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Transgression is a quest for solitude
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You write to find out what you believe.
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When we define ourselves by what we can recognize, by what we can comprehend- rather than, say, by what we can describe
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Excesses of appetite are self-cures for feelings of hopelessness. ..
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The big secret about Art is that no one wants it to be true.
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