I took a deep breath, however, and followed my rule of never speaking frankly to women in moments of emotion. No good ever comes of this.
IRIS MURDOCHLove is the extremely difficult realization that something other than oneself is real.
More Iris Murdoch Quotes
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There is no beyond, there is only here, the infinitely small, infinitely great and utterly demanding present.
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Coffee, unless it is very good and made by somebody else, is pretty intolerable at any time.
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We are all the judges and the judged, victims of the casual malice and fantasy of others, and ready sources of fantasy and malice in our turn. And if we are sometimes accused of sins of which we are innocent, are there not also other sins of which we are guilty and of which the world knows nothing?
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Reading and writing and the preservation of language and its forms and the kind of eloquence and the kind of beauty which the language is capable of is terribly important to the human beings because this is connected to thought.
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Every persisting marriage is based on fear’, said Peregrine. ‘Fear is fundamental, you dig down in human nature and what’s at the bottom? Mean spiteful cruel self-regarding fear, whether it makes you to put the foot in it or whether it makes you to cower.
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One should go easy on smashing other people’s lies. Better to concentrate on one’s own.
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We defend ourselves with descriptions and tame the world by generalizing.
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There is no substitute for the comfort supplied by the utterly taken-for-granted relationship.
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Bereavement is a darkness impenetrable to the imagination of the unbereaved.
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Every book is the wreck of a perfect idea.
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Jealousy is the most dreadfully involuntary of all sins.
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As we live our precarious lives on the brink of the void, constantly coming closer to a state of nonbeing, we are all too often aware of our fragitlity.
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Love doesn’t think like that. All right, it’s blind as a bat- Bats have radar. Yours doesnt seem to be working.
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Falling out of love is chiefly a matter of forgetting how charming someone is.
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Let us not waste love, it is rare enough.
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