A very important but difficult piece of renewing relationships is accepting responsibility for our part in any conflict.
TUTU DESMONDLife is more than breath and a heartbeat; meaning and purpose are the life of life.
More Tutu Desmond Quotes
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We may be surprised at the people we find in heaven. God has a soft spot for sinners. His standards are quite low.
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You don’t choose your family. They are God’s gift to you, as you are to them.
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Forgiveness does not relieve someone of responsibility for what they have done. Forgiveness does not erase accountability. It is not about turning a blind eye or even turning the other cheek.
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You show your humanity by how you see yourself not as apart from others but from your connection to others.
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Out of the cacophony of random suffering and chaos that can mark human life, the life artist sees or creates a symphony of meaning and order.
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If you are setting out to be joyful you are not going to end up being joyful. You’re going to find yourself turned in on yourself. It’s like a flower. You open, you blossom, really because of other people.
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God is transforming the world now–through us–because God loves us.
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Dear Child of God, I am sorry to say that suffering is not optional.
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We are fragile creatures, and it is from this weakness, not despite it, that we discover the possibility of true joy.
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Do your little bit of good where you are; it’s those little bits of good put together that overwhelm the world.
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Forgiveness is truly the grace by which we enable another person to get up, and get up with dignity, to begin anew.
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Much depends on your attitude. If you are filled with negative judgment and anger, then you will feel separate from other people. You will feel lonely.
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Transformation begins in you, wherever you are, whatever has happened, however you are suffering. Transformation is always possible.
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Our maturity will be judged by how well we are able to agree to disagree and yet continue to love one another, to care for one another, and cherish one another and seek the greater good of the other.
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Forgiving is not forgetting; its actually remembering–remembering and not using your right to hit back. Its a second chance for a new beginning. And the remembering part is particularly important. Especially if you dont want to repeat what happened.
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