We are not responsible for what breaks us, but we can be responsible for what puts us back together again. Naming the hurt is how we begin to repair our broken parts.
TUTU DESMONDWe are not responsible for what breaks us, but we can be responsible for what puts us back together again. Naming the hurt is how we begin to repair our broken parts.
TUTU DESMONDDiscovering more joy does not, save us from the inevitability of hardship and heartbreak.
TUTU DESMONDLanguage is very powerful. Language does not just describe reality. Language creates the reality it describes.
TUTU DESMONDYou don’t choose your family. They are God’s gift to you, as you are to them.
TUTU DESMONDThere is nothing more difficult than waking someone who is only pretending to be asleep.
TUTU DESMONDGod is transforming the world now–through us–because God loves us.
TUTU DESMONDWe do not heal in isolation. When we reach out and connect with one another—when we tell the story, name the hurt, grant forgiveness, and renew or release the relationship—our suffering begins to transform.
TUTU DESMONDI do believe there are monstrous and evil acts, but I do not believe those who commit such acts are monsters or evil.
TUTU DESMONDWhen we see others as separate, they become a threat. When we see others as part of us, as connected, as interdependent, then there is no challenge we cannot face—together.
TUTU DESMONDLife is more than breath and a heartbeat; meaning and purpose are the life of life.
TUTU DESMONDOur maturity will be judged by how well we are able to agree to disagree and yet continue to love one another, to care for one another, and cherish one another and seek the greater good of the other.
TUTU DESMONDWe may be surprised at the people we find in heaven. God has a soft spot for sinners. His standards are quite low.
TUTU DESMONDBe nice to whites, they need you to rediscover their humanity.
TUTU DESMONDTo protect our children, we must talk to them about rape.
TUTU DESMONDThe path of joy was connection and the path of sorrow was separation.
TUTU DESMONDIt is through weakness and vulnerability that most of us learn empathy and compassion and discover our soul.
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