Forgiveness is truly the grace by which we enable another person to get up, and get up with dignity, to begin anew.
TUTU DESMONDIn the end generosity is the best way of becoming more, more, and more joyful.
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Discovering more joy does not, save us from the inevitability of hardship and heartbreak.
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We may be surprised at the people we find in heaven. God has a soft spot for sinners. His standards are quite low.
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You show your humanity by how you see yourself not as apart from others but from your connection to others.
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Much depends on your attitude. If you are filled with negative judgment and anger, then you will feel separate from other people. You will feel lonely.
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Life of wholeness does not depend on what we experience. Wholeness depends on how we experience our lives
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Do your little bit of good where you are; it’s those little bits of good put together that overwhelm the world.
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We learn from history that we don’t learn from history.
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If you are neutral in situations of injustice, you have chosen the side of the oppressor. If an elephant has its foot on the tail of a mouse, and you say that you are neutral, the mouse will not appreciate your neutrality.
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We do not heal in isolation. When we reach out and connect with one another—when we tell the story, name the hurt, grant forgiveness, and renew or release the relationship—our suffering begins to transform.
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Human beings are actually created for the transcendent, for the sublime, for the beautiful, for the truthful, and all of us are given the task of trying to make this world a little more hospitable to these beautiful things.
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Forgiveness does not relieve someone of responsibility for what they have done. Forgiveness does not erase accountability. It is not about turning a blind eye or even turning the other cheek.
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We are made for goodness. We are made for love. We are made for friendliness. We are made for togetherness. We are made for all of the beautiful things that you and I know.
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We are not responsible for what breaks us, but we can be responsible for what puts us back together again. Naming the hurt is how we begin to repair our broken parts.
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Religion is like a knife: you can either use it to cut bread, or stick in someone’s back.
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A very important but difficult piece of renewing relationships is accepting responsibility for our part in any conflict.
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