Life forces enough final decisions on us. We should have the sense to avoid as many of the unnecessary ones as we can.
JOHN IRVINGSelf-hatred is worse than loneliness.
More John Irving Quotes
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I’m not a movie person. They’re collaborations of the worst kind. You must compromise yourself to many interests that are venal and crass and do not have your best interests at heart.
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They were involved in that awkward procedure of getting to unknow each other.
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Our memory is a monster; you forget it – it does not.
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Nearly everything seems a letdown after a writer has finished writing something.
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There’s nothing as scary as the future.
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A sentence boiled in her, but she could not yet see it clearly.
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Children are most impressed with the importance of a moment when they witness a parent breaking the parents’ own rule.
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I grew up in a family where, through my teenage years, I was expected to go to church on Sunday. It wasn’t terribly painful.
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Patriotism is not necessarily defined as blind devotion to a president’s particular agenda – and that to dispute a presidential policy is not necessarily anti-American.
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Rituals are comforting; rituals combat loneliness.
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I am compulsive about writing, I need to do it the way I need sleep and exercise and food and sex; I can go without it for a while, but then I need it.
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If pride is a sin … moral pride is the greatest sin.
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I have always believed that, in a story, if something traumatic or calamitous enough happens to a kid at a formative age, that will make him or her the adult they become.
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When Jack Burns needed to hold his mother’s hand, his fingers could see in the dark.
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I always thought that you could do worse than find yourself dying in the company of a devoted former student.
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