… and so he tried to accept the ache in his heart as what Dr. Larch would call the common symptoms of normal life.
JOHN IRVINGSelf-hatred is worse than loneliness.
More John Irving Quotes
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A novel is a piece of architecture. It’s not random wallowings or confessional diaries. It’s a building-it has to have walls and floors and the bathrooms have to work.
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In increments both measurable and not, our childhood is stolen from us — not always in one momentous event but often in a series of small robberies, which add up to the same loss.
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The lie, of course, is more interesting.
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You don’t want to be ungenerous toward people who give you prizes, but it is never the social or political message that interests me in a novel. I begin with an interest in a relationship, a situation, a character.
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My brain is sending poison to my heart.
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A writer’s job is to imagine everything so personally that the fiction is as vivid as memories.
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Nearly everything seems a letdown after a writer has finished writing something.
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Life is serious but art is fun!
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Whereas she wished more of the population were better educated, she also believed that education was largely wasted on the majority of the people she met.
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The excitement of anticipation was *almost* equal to the thrill of lovemaking.
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I suppose I’m proudest of my novels for what’s imagined in them. I think the world of my imagination is a richer and more interesting place than my personal biography.
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It is your responsibility to find fault with me, it is mine to hear you out. But don’t expect me to change.
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They all settled into being the kind of friends when they heard from each other…. or when they occasionally got together. And when they were not in touch, they did not think of one another.
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When Jack Burns needed to hold his mother’s hand, his fingers could see in the dark.
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I think now that is the nature of hymns-they make us want to repeat them…they are a part of any service, and often the only part of a funeral service, that makes us feel everything is acceptable.
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