You don’t want to be ungenerous toward people who give you prizes, but it is never the social or political message that interests me in a novel. I begin with an interest in a relationship, a situation, a character.
JOHN IRVINGIf pride is a sin … moral pride is the greatest sin.
More John Irving Quotes
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My life is a reading list.
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There’s nothing as scary as the future.
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I am compulsive about writing, I need to do it the way I need sleep and exercise and food and sex; I can go without it for a while, but then I need it.
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They were involved in that awkward procedure of getting to unknow each other.
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I think now that is the nature of hymns-they make us want to repeat them…they are a part of any service, and often the only part of a funeral service, that makes us feel everything is acceptable.
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What a phrase that is: ‘that explains everything!’ I know better than to think anything ‘explains everything’ today.
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Everybody dies … The thing is, to have a life before we die.
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I grew up in a family where, through my teenage years, I was expected to go to church on Sunday. It wasn’t terribly painful.
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In the world according to Garp, we are all terminal cases
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but writers, Garp knew, were just observers – good and ruthless imitators of human behavior.
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Whereas she wished more of the population were better educated, she also believed that education was largely wasted on the majority of the people she met.
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He wished he could arrange a maiming as a kind of moral lesson
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In the world according to her father, Jenny Garp knew, we must have energy. Her famous grandmother, Jenny Fields, once thought of us as Externals, Vital Organs, Absentees, and Goners. But in the world according to Garp, we are all terminal cases.
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When I finally write the first sentence, I want to know everything that happens, so that I am not inventing the story as I write it – rather, I am remembering a story that has already happened.
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The excitement of anticipation was *almost* equal to the thrill of lovemaking.
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…I suddenly realized what small towns are. They are places where you grow up with the peculiar-you live next door to the strange and the unlikely for so long that everything and everyone become commonplace.
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In increments both measurable and not, our childhood is stolen from us — not always in one momentous event but often in a series of small robberies, which add up to the same loss.
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I have always believed that, in a story, if something traumatic or calamitous enough happens to a kid at a formative age, that will make him or her the adult they become.
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Kids are beautiful, man. And they know much more than grownups think they know. Kids are just perfect people until grownups get their hands on them.
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If you asked me one day, I might say, “Well, sometimes I feel a little bit religious.” If you asked me another day, I’d just say flat out, “No.”
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Life,” Garp wrote, “is sadly not structured like a good old-fashioned novel. Instead an end occurs when those who are meant to peter out have petered out. All that is left is memory. But even a nihilist has memory.
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There are always suicides among people who are unable to say what they mean.
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I still believe in getting married in churches and baptizing children. I go through those motions.
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When writing a novel, I’m not smart enough to know how to foreshadow something if I don’t know what it is.
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You’re nice,’ Cushie told him, squeezing his hand. ‘And you’re my oldest friend.’ But they both must have known that you can know someone all your life and never quite be friends.
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Nothing bears out in practice what it promises incipiently.
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