Real loneliness consists not in being alone, but in being with the wrong person, in the suffocating darkness of a room in which no deep communication is possible.
SYDNEY J. HARRISElitism is the slur directed at merit by mediocrity.
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Man’s unique agony as a species consists in his perpetual conflict between the desire to stand out and the need to blend in.
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It’s surprising how many persons go through life without ever recognizing that their feelings toward other people are largely determined by their feelings toward themselves, and if you’re not comfortable within yourself, you can’t be comfortable with others.
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Marriages we regard as the happiest are those in which each of the partners believes he or she got the best of it.
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We evaluate others with a Godlike justice, but we want them to evaluate us with a Godlike compassion.
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When we have “second thoughts” about something, our first thoughts don’t seem like thoughts at all – just feelings.
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Skepticism is not an end in itself; it is a tool for the discovery of truths.
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Many married couples separate because they quarrel incessantly, but just as many separate because they were never honest enough or courageous enough to quarrel when they should have.
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Life is, if anything, the art of combination. Of discrimination. Of freely picking one’s own personal pattern out of a hundred choices. Not letting it be picked for you-either by the Establishment, or by the Rebels. Conformity of Hip is no better than Conformity of Square.
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The loner may be respected, but he is always resented by his colleagues, for he seems to be passing a critical judgment on them, when he may be simply making a limiting statement about himself.
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The severest test of character is not so much the ability to keep a secret as it is, when the secret is finally out, to refrain from disclosing that you knew it all along.
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Knowledge fills a large brain; it merely inflates a small one.
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The greatest enemy of progress is not stagnation, but false progress.
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Take away grievances from some people and you remove their reasons for living; most of us are nourished by hope, but a considerable minority get psychic nutrition from their resentments, and would waste away purposelessly without them.
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Between the semi-educated, who offer simplistic answers to complex questions, and the overeducated, who offer complicated answers to simple questions, it is a wonder that any questions get satisfactorily answered at all.
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People who think they’re generous to a fault usually think that’s their only fault.
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