Everybody knows it hurts to grow up…and we’re still fighting it.
BEN FOLDS
BEN FOLDS
Ben Folds on fighting
Ben Folds70 quotes“Everybody knows it hurts to grow up…and we’re still fighting it.”
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I divorce myself from listeners who aren’t tolerant of humor. I did notice universally that, especially when it comes to weight, people look in the mirror and get the angle just right, tell themselves it’s all right, and then they go out.
Ben FoldsBen Folds But I really do have a soft spot for the solo shows. Any musician who writes and sings will tell you that’s the center of it, that is it. It’s almost like there’s something church-like about it and you gotta go back there, if you’re a songwriter that sings your material.
Ben FoldsBen Folds I’m not really a strange person or anything, so if there’s music I like, usually there’s other people who like it too.
Ben FoldsBen Folds In many ways, I’ve chosen to be plain, almost too plain, too self-effacing. Like, if I record a vocal and I don’t like the way it sounds, I would have them turn it up and take the reverb off it to make it as plain as possible.
Ben FoldsBen Folds The way I see it, there’s only one melody for any song.
Ben FoldsBen Folds The less I talk in bars, write emails, express myself in an emotionally lewd way outside of my songwriting, the more I have to do it through my music.
Ben FoldsBen Folds The reason I stop playing songs is usually because I get sick of them, and then they find themselves back into the set list at some point.
Ben FoldsBen Folds Notes don’t make music until you learn to insert silence between them.
Ben FoldsBen Folds I have manic energy. What can be done about it? I don’t know what to say sometimes. I’m professional in public, but I like to stay inside and be a hermit.
Ben FoldsBen Folds White people don’t sing together very often, and when they do, it’s about the celebrity of the song. The singing at my shows is all about harmony.
Ben FoldsBen Folds Being capable of anything is a bullshit concept, unless it means you also admit that you’re capable of cheating, lying and killing.
Ben FoldsBen Folds The press is like any business. Its a group of really intelligent individuals that ends up being one slathering, one-eyed, drooling monster.
Ben FoldsBen Folds I’m romantically inclined. No human being on Earth is not attracted to other people. There is no fairy tale that they only have eyes for you. You just choose to act on it or not.
Ben FoldsBen Folds I’m aware that I’m very fringe, and it’s nice that way.
Ben FoldsBen Folds You can’t really control how people hear stuff. It’s hard to remember that. I have to let go of it.
Ben FoldsBen Folds I do think that when you make repeated mistakes, it’s usually because you’re just not coming to grips with something.
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I managed to cut myself loose and while there was pain – there weren’t any blood.
Jenny WinbladhJenny Winbladh Free will exist only in a confused mind.
Frode GaslandFrode Gasland If you are true to yourself, you are already a winner.
Alex DanielAlex Daniel You deserve words that remind you of your value.
Saif Ali ManganSaif Ali Mangan Do always wonder about your worth and remind yourself that even roses have their own thorns.
Megan LaoMegan Lao I’m like sugar in the coffee. Stir me and I’ll dissolve into you.
BelaBela Plans have changed. Life looks different. & now we’re all figuring it out as we go.
Tanya GillTanya Gill Be loyal to those loyal to you.
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Things look different depending on your perspective. As I see it, fighting to bridge those gaps isn’t what really matters. The most important thing is to know them inside and out, as differences, and to understand why certain people are the way they are.
Banana YoshimotoBanana Yoshimoto Whenever people are being intellectually dishonest in debate, it is an implicit concession they have lost the fight
Barney FrankBarney Frank Where is the politician who has not promised to fight to the death for lower taxes- and who has not proceeded to vote for the very spending projects that make tax cuts impossible?
Barry GoldwaterBarry Goldwater Fun, fighting, and feeding! These are the three indispensable elements of the boy’s world.
Baden Powell de AquinoBaden Powell de Aquino This is what I tell, especially young women, fight the big fights. Don’t fight the little fight… Be the first one in, be the last one out. Do your homework, choose your battles. Don’t whine, and don’t be the one who complains about everything. Fight the big fight.
Barbara WaltersBarbara Walters It’s not who wins the fight that’s important, it’s being willing to fight. If you get challenged and renege, everyone wants to take a shot at you.
Barclay PlagerBarclay Plager No man can fight his way to the top and stay at the top without exercising the fullest measure of grit, courage, determination, resolution.
B. C. ForbesB. C. Forbes When will you give up these mad adventures, and leave others to fight their own battles and to save their own lives as best they may?’ When your ladyship has ceased to be the most admired woman in Europe, namely, when I am in my grave.
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