Being capable of anything is a bullshit concept, unless it means you also admit that you’re capable of cheating, lying and killing.
BEN FOLDS
BEN FOLDS
Ben Folds on cheating
Ben Folds70 quotes“Being capable of anything is a bullshit concept, unless it means you also admit that you’re capable of cheating, lying and killing.”
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I divorce myself from listeners who aren’t tolerant of humor. I did notice universally that, especially when it comes to weight, people look in the mirror and get the angle just right, tell themselves it’s all right, and then they go out.
Ben FoldsBen Folds But I really do have a soft spot for the solo shows. Any musician who writes and sings will tell you that’s the center of it, that is it. It’s almost like there’s something church-like about it and you gotta go back there, if you’re a songwriter that sings your material.
Ben FoldsBen Folds I’m not really a strange person or anything, so if there’s music I like, usually there’s other people who like it too.
Ben FoldsBen Folds In many ways, I’ve chosen to be plain, almost too plain, too self-effacing. Like, if I record a vocal and I don’t like the way it sounds, I would have them turn it up and take the reverb off it to make it as plain as possible.
Ben FoldsBen Folds The way I see it, there’s only one melody for any song.
Ben FoldsBen Folds The less I talk in bars, write emails, express myself in an emotionally lewd way outside of my songwriting, the more I have to do it through my music.
Ben FoldsBen Folds The reason I stop playing songs is usually because I get sick of them, and then they find themselves back into the set list at some point.
Ben FoldsBen Folds Notes don’t make music until you learn to insert silence between them.
Ben FoldsBen Folds I have manic energy. What can be done about it? I don’t know what to say sometimes. I’m professional in public, but I like to stay inside and be a hermit.
Ben FoldsBen Folds White people don’t sing together very often, and when they do, it’s about the celebrity of the song. The singing at my shows is all about harmony.
Ben FoldsBen Folds The press is like any business. Its a group of really intelligent individuals that ends up being one slathering, one-eyed, drooling monster.
Ben FoldsBen Folds I’m romantically inclined. No human being on Earth is not attracted to other people. There is no fairy tale that they only have eyes for you. You just choose to act on it or not.
Ben FoldsBen Folds I’m aware that I’m very fringe, and it’s nice that way.
Ben FoldsBen Folds You can’t really control how people hear stuff. It’s hard to remember that. I have to let go of it.
Ben FoldsBen Folds I do think that when you make repeated mistakes, it’s usually because you’re just not coming to grips with something.
Ben FoldsBen Folds My job is to be some sort of music/lyric psychic, to figure out that that’s the right song to not fight the lyric.
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B. C. ForbesB. C. Forbes I still think my whole career was accidental. I didn’t pursue it. I feel like I’m cheating sometimes.
Ben E. KingBen E. King Become good at cheating and you never need to become good at anything else.
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