Intimacy requires courage because risk is inescapable. We cannot know at the outset how the relationship will affect us. Like a chemical mixture, if one of us is changed, both of us will be. Will we grow in self-actualization, or will it destroy us?
ROLLO MAYLife comes from physical survival; but the good life comes from what we care about.
More Rollo May Quotes
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Anxiety is essential to the human condition. The confrontation with anxiety can relieve us from boredom, sharpen the sensitivity and assure the presence of tension that is necessary to preserve human existence.
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One of the few blessings of living in an age of anxiety is that we are forced to become aware of ourselves.
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Suffering is nature’s way of indicating a mistaken attitude or way of behavior, and to the nonegocentric person every moment of suffering is the opportunity for growth. People should rejoice in suffering, strange as it sounds, for this is a sign of the availability of energy to transform their characters.
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If you do not express your own original ideas, if you do not listen to your own being, you will have betrayed yourself.
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Science, Nietzsche had warned, is becoming a factory, and the result will be ethical nihilism.
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Freedom does not come automatically; it is achieved. And it is not gained in a single bound; it must be achieved each day.
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Artists love to immerse themselves in chaos in order to put it into form, just as God created form out of chaos in Genesis. Forever unsatisfied with the mundane, the apathetic, the conventional, they always push on to newer worlds.
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Heroes are necessary in order to enable the citizens to find their own ideals, courage and wisdom in the society. The hero carries our hopes, our aspirations, our ideals, our beliefs. In the deepest sense the hero is created by us; he or she is born collectively as our own myth.
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I learned that healing and cure are active processes in which I myself needed to participate.
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Love is generally confused with dependence; but in point of fact, you can love only in proportion to your capacity for independence.
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This is what our society needs – not new ideas and inventions; important as these are, and not geniuses and supermen, but persons who can be, that is, persons who have a center of strength within themselves.
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There is no authentic inner freedom that does not, sooner or later, also affect and change human history.
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This is what makes heroism so important: it reflects our own sense of identity and from this our own heroism is molded.
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Forge in the smithy of your soul.
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Finding the center of strength within ourselves is in the long run the best contribution we can make to our fellow men. … One person with indigenous inner strength exercises a great calming effect on panic among people around him.
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