Deeds of violence in our society are performed largely by those trying to establish their self-esteem, to defend their self-image, and to demonstrate that they, too, are significant.
ROLLO MAYDoes not the possibility or the power to do something about the situation at hand confer on one the responsibility to do it?
More Rollo May Quotes
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There can be no stronger proof of the impoverishment of our contemporary culture than the popular – though profoundly mistaken – definition of myth as falsehood.
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Courage is not the absence of despair; it is, rather, the capacity to move ahead in spite of despair.
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Love is generally confused with dependence; but in point of fact, you can love only in proportion to your capacity for independence.
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Many people feel they are powerless to do anything effective with their lives. It takes courage to break out of the settled mold, but most find conformity more comfortable. This is why the opposite of courage in our society is not cowardice, it’s conformity.
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What anxiety means is it’s as though the world is knocking at your door, and you need to create, you need to make something, you need to do something. I think anxiety, for people who have found their own heart and their own souls, for them it is a stimulus toward creativity, toward courage. It’s what makes us human beings.
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Many people suffer from the fear of finding oneself alone, and so they don’t find themselves at all.
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Memory is not just the imprint of the past time upon us; it is the keeper of what is meaningful for our deepest hopes and fears.
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A person can meet anxiety to the extent that his values are stronger than the threat.
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Recall how often in human history the saint and the rebel have be the same person. (p. 35)
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One central need in life is to fulfill its own potential.
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The ultimate error is the refusal to look evil in the face.
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People attain worth and dignity by the multitude of decisions they make from day to day.
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The danger always exists that our technology will serve as a buffer between us and nature, a block between us and the deeper dimensions of our own experience.
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Courage is the capacity to meet the anxiety which arises as one achieves freedom. It is the willingness to differentiate, to move from the protecting realms of parental dependence to new levels of freedom and integration.
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The purpose of psychotherapy is to set people free.
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