He had learned long ago that, in general, the easier it was for anxious patients to reach him, the less likely they were to call. (107)
IRVIN D. YALOMI dream of a love that is more than two people craving to possess one another.
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Religion has everything on its side: revelation, prophecies, government protection, the highest dignity and eminence. . . and more than this, the invaluable prerogative of being allowed to imprint its doctrines on the mind at a tender age of childhood, whereby they become almost innate ideas.
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Death anxiety is the mother of all religions, which, in one way or another, attempt to temper the anguish of our finitude.
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If one is to love oneself one must behave in ways that one can admire.
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I feel strongly, because a man who will himself die one day in the not to distant future and, also, as a psychiatrist who spent decades dealing with death anxiety, that confronting death allows us, not to open some noisome.
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If one is to learn to live with the dead, one must first learn to live with the living!
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Live your life to the fullest; and then, and only then, die. Don’t leave any unlived life behind.
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Does a being who requires meaning find meaning in a universe that has no meaning?
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I think we ripple on into others, just like a stone puts its ripples into a brook. That, for me, too, is a source of comfort. It kind of, in a sense, negates the sense of total oblivion.
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Despair is the price one pays for self-awareness. Look deeply into life, and you’ll always find despair.
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Every person must choose how much truth he can stand.
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Not to take possession of your life plan is to let your existence be an accident.
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If we climb high enough, we will reach a height from which tragedy ceases to look tragic.
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Never take away anything if you have nothing better to offer
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Psychotherapy is a cyclical process from isolation into relationship. It is cyclical because the patient, in terror of existential isolation, relates deeply and meaningfully to the therapist and then, strengthened by this encounter, is led back again to a confrontation with existential isolation.
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There is some evidence, for example, that those who enter the death-related professions (soldiers, doctors, priests, and morticians) may in part be motivated by a need to obtain control over death anxiety.
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