We often lose our tempers not with those who are actually to blame; just with those who love us enough to forgive us our foul moods.
ALAIN DE BOTTONArguments are like eels: however logical, they may slip from the minds weak grasp unless fixed there by imagery and style.
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My writing always came out of a very personal place, out of an attempt to stay sane.
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I think people want to get married to end their emotional uncertainty. In a way, they want to end powerful feelings, or certainly the negative ones.
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Maturity: knowing where you’re crazy, trying to warn others of the fact and striving to keep yourself under control.
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I feel that the great challenge of our time is the communication of ideas.
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Must being in love always mean being in pain?
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We read the weird tales in newspapers to crowd out the even weirder stuff inside us.
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Bitterness: anger that forgot where it came from.
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In the gap between who we wish one day to be and who we are at present, must come pain, anxiety, envy and humiliation.
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So many complaints boil down to the belly ache of the fragile, mortal, ignored ego in a vast and indifferent universe.
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I learnt to stop fantasising about the perfect job or the perfect relationship because that can actually be an excuse for not living.
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To be shown love is to feel ourselves the object of concern: our presence is noted, our name is registered, our views are listened to, our failings are treated with indulgence and our needs are ministered to. And under such care, we flourish.
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There is a longing for a return to a time without the need for choices, free of the regret at the inevitable loss that all choice (however wonderful) has entailed.
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A good half of the art of living is resilience.
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Newspapers are being read all around. The point is not, of course, to glean new information, but rather to coax the mind out of its sleep-induced introspective temper.
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We need a home in the psychological sense as much as we need one in the physical: to compensate for a vulnerability.
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