It is by finding out what something is not that one comes closest to understanding what it is.
ALAIN DE BOTTON
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Alain de Botton234 quotes“It is by finding out what something is not that one comes closest to understanding what it is.”
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Journeys are the midwives of thought. Few places are more conducive to internal conversations than moving planes, ships or trains.
Alain de BottonAlain de Botton Unhappiness can stem from having only one perspective to play with.
Alain de BottonAlain de Botton A notorious inability to express emotions makes human beings the only animals capable of suicide.
Alain de BottonAlain de Botton Differ though we might with Christianity’s view of what precisely our souls need, it is hard to discredit the provocative underlying thesis.
Alain de BottonAlain de Botton The telephone becomes an instrument of torture in the demonic hands of a beloved who doesn’t call.
Alain de BottonAlain de Botton Art holds out the promise of inner wholeness.
Alain de BottonAlain de Botton Out of the millions of people we live among, most of whom we habitually ignore and are ignored by in turn, there are always a few that hold hostage our capacity for happiness, whom we could recognize by their smell alone and whom we would rather die than be without.
Alain de BottonAlain de Botton The very act of drawing an object, however badly, swiftly takes the drawer from a woolly sense of what the object looks like to a precise awareness of its component parts and particularities.
Alain de BottonAlain de Botton Our capacity to draw happiness from aesthetic objects or material goods in fact seems critically dependent on our first satisfying a more important range of emotional or psychological needs, among them the need for understanding, for love, expression and respect.
Alain de BottonAlain de Botton We envy only those whom we feel ourselves to be like; we envy only members of our reference group. There are few successes more unendurable than those of our close friends.
Alain de BottonAlain de Botton Everyone wants a better life: very few of us want to be better people.
Alain de BottonAlain de Botton Perhaps it is true that we do not really exist until there is someone there to see us existing, we cannot properly speak until there is someone who can understand what we are saying in essence, we are not wholly alive until we are loved.
Alain de BottonAlain de Botton It’s as though either you accept [religious] doctrine and then you can have all the nice stuff, or you reject the doctrine and you’re living in some kind of spiritual wasteland under the guidance of CNN and Walmart.
Alain de BottonAlain de Botton Newspapers are being read all around. The point is not, of course, to glean new information, but rather to coax the mind out of its sleep-induced introspective temper.
Alain de BottonAlain de Botton The mind does most of its best thinking when we aren’t there. The answers are there in the morning.
Alain de BottonAlain de Botton We will cease to be angry once we cease to be so hopeful.
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Since you are gone, I collect the stars each night building my own night sky, so I have something to hold onto forever.
Laura ChouetteLaura Chouette Can anybody hear me? Are my words going to waste I need to believe there was a purpose to all the pain?
Allie MillerAllie Miller The universe hears what you say, but it knows what you mean.
Brianna PastorBrianna Pastor Enough of this. The next one I love will return my passion.
Iestyn TudorIestyn Tudor It’s unconditional; their chemistry is unconditional – forever.
Ophelia ScarlettOphelia Scarlett I love you so much that it hurts and that’s the problem I love you so much that it hurts.
Olivia CliffordOlivia Clifford Let’s always bloom, savor and delight others with our beauty.
Mariya FedulovaMariya Fedulova Shadows follow me the way a vulture stalks death. One small step ahead.
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Fear is finding fault with the future.
Ajahn BrahmAjahn Brahm We do it, not with desire, but with letting go. If you want anything, you wont find it.
Ajahn ChahAjahn Chah Love, oneness, is no separation between you and life. It is a progressive letting go, a progressive not fault finding.
Ajahn BrahmAjahn Brahm Investigate yourself to find the truth – inside, not outside. Knowing yourself is most important.
Ajahn ChahAjahn Chah I did my homework, of course, by inhaling as much literature as was available to find.
Aisha HindsAisha Hinds It’s in the dictionary. And when I find what it is, I’ll write it down in case it comes up again, I’ll be certain to avoid it.
Aimee MannAimee Mann I’ve just got to be myself and hopefully people will find me. And my audience did find me.
Aisha TylerAisha Tyler I’m just going to be the best version of me that I could possibly be and be as funny as I possibly can.
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