The mind does most of its best thinking when we aren’t there. The answers are there in the morning.
ALAIN DE BOTTON
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Alain de Botton234 quotes“The mind does most of its best thinking when we aren’t there. The answers are there in the morning.”
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Alain de BottonAlain de Botton Endeavoring to purchase something we think beautiful may in fact be the most unimaginative way of dealing with the longing it excites in us, just as trying to sleep with someone may be the bluntest response to a feeling of love.
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