When work is not going well, it’s useful to remember that our identities stretch beyond what is on the business card, that we were people long before we became workers – and will continue to be human once we have put our tools down forever.
ALAIN DE BOTTONEvery time we feel satisfied with what we have, we can be counted as rich, however little we may actually possess.
More Alain de Botton Quotes
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The materialistic view of happiness of our age starkly revealed in our understanding of the word “luxury.
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What am I supposed to do here? What am I supposed to think?
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Which seems no less relevant in the secular realm than in the religious one-that we have within us a precious, childlike, vulnerable core which we should nourish and nurture on its turbulent journey through life.
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The moment we cry in a film is not when things are sad but when they turn out to be more beautiful than we expected them to be.
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Our disrespect for thinking: someone sitting in a chair, gazing out of a window blankly, always described as ‘doing nothing’.
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I learnt to stop fantasising about the perfect job or the perfect relationship because that can actually be an excuse for not living.
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What is fascinating about marriage is why anyone wants to get married.
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We study biology, physics, movements of glaciers… Where are the classes on envy, feeling wronged, despair, bitterness.
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Maturity: knowing where you’re crazy, trying to warn others of the fact and striving to keep yourself under control.
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We need objects to remind us of the commitments we’ve made. That carpet from Morocco reminds us of the impulsive, freedom-loving side of ourselves we’re in danger of losing touch with. Beautiful furniture gives us something to live up to. All designed objects are propaganda for a way of life.
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Most of what makes a book ‘good’ is that we are reading it at the right moment for us.
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Only by declaring a book completely finished can one start to see how much remains to be done on it.
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Journeys are the midwives of thought. Few places are more conducive to internal conversations than moving planes, ships or trains.
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As adults, we try to develop the character traits that would have rescued our parents.
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Our greatest furies spring from events which violate our sense of the ground of our existence.
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