What should worry us is not the number of people that oppose us, but how good their reasons are for doing so.
ALAIN DE BOTTONOnce I began to consider everything as being of potential interest, objects released latent layers of value.
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Rather than employing it as a supplement to active, conscious seeing, they used the medium as a substitute, paying less attention to the world than they had done previously, taking it on faith that photography automatically assured them possession of it.
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The only way to be happy is to realise how much depends on how you look at things
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to design means forcing ourselves to unlearn what we believe we already know, patiently to take apart the mechanisms behind our reflexes and to acknowledge the mystery and stupefying complexity of everyday gestures like switching off a light of turning on a tap
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You normally have to be bashed about a bit by life to see the point of daffodils, sunsets and uneventful nice days.
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I feel that the great challenge of our time is the communication of ideas.
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We read the weird tales in newspapers to crowd out the even weirder stuff inside us.
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Maturity: the confidence to have no opinions on many things.
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A notorious inability to express emotions makes human beings the only animals capable of suicide.
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The need for love hallucinates a prince or princess. The oasis complex is never a complete delusion: the man in the desert does see something on the horizon. It is just that the palms have withered, the well is dry, and the place is infected with locusts.
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The best cure for one’s bad tendencies is to see them in action in another person.
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We need a refuge to shore up our states of mind, because so much of the world is opposed to our allegiances. We need our rooms to align us to desirable versions of ourselves and to keep alive the important, evanescent sides of us.
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It is in dialogue with pain that many beautiful things acquire their value. Acquaintance with grief turns out to be one of the more unusual prerequisites of architectural appreciation. We might, quite aside from all other requirements, need to be a little sad before buildings can properly touch us.
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The most attractive are not those who allow us to kiss them at once [we soon feel ungrateful] or those who never allow us to kiss them [we soon forget them], but those who coyly lead us between the two extremes.
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The problem is if you really believe in a society where those who merit to get to the top, get to the top, you’ll also, by implication … believe in a society where those who deserve to get to the bottom also get to the bottom and stay there.
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The difference between hope and despair is a different way of telling stories from the same facts.
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