The inability to live in the present lies in the fear of leaving the sheltered position of anticipation or memory, and so of admitting that this is the only life that one is ever likely (heavenly intervention aside) to live.
ALAIN DE BOTTONOnce I began to consider everything as being of potential interest, objects released latent layers of value.
More Alain de Botton Quotes
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What am I supposed to do here? What am I supposed to think?
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We are not always humiliated by failing; we are humiliated only if we first invest our pride and sense of worth in a given achievement and then do not reach it.
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Our homes do not have to offer us permanent occupancy or store our clothes to merit the name. To speak of home in relation to a building is simply to recognise its harmony with our own prized internal song. Home can be an airport or a library, a garden or a motorway diner.
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It wasn’t only fanatics and drunkards who began conversations with strangers in public.
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Most of us still caged within careers chosen for us by our not entirely worldly 18-22 year old selves.
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In the gap between who we wish one day to be and who we are at present, must come pain, anxiety, envy and humiliation.
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When you look at the Moon, you think, ‘I’m really small. What are my problems?’ It sets things into perspective. We should all look at the Moon a bit more often.
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Feeling lost, crazy and desperate belongs to a good life as much as optimism, certainty and reason.
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What we seek, at the deepest level, is inwardly to resemble, rather than physically to possess, the objects and places that touch us through their beauty.
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We need a home in the psychological sense as much as we need one in the physical: to compensate for a vulnerability.
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One kind of good book should leave you asking: how did the author know that about me?
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After 40 (old age for most of man’s history), one should strive to be more or less packed and ready to go were the end call to come.
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Paying tax should be framed as a glorious civic duty worthy of gratitude – not a punishment for making money.
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We may seek a fortune for no greater reason than to secure the respect and attention of people who would otherwise look straight through us.
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Dreams reveal we never quite get ‘over’ anything: it’s all still in there somewhere.
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