We need a home in the psychological sense as much as we need one in the physical: to compensate for a vulnerability.
ALAIN DE BOTTONThe difference between hope and despair is a different way of telling stories from the same facts.
More Alain de Botton Quotes
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One of the better guarantors of ending up in a good relationship: an advanced capacity to be alone.
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Endeavoring to purchase something we think beautiful may in fact be the most unimaginative way of dealing with the longing it excites in us, just as trying to sleep with someone may be the bluntest response to a feeling of love.
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The media insists on taking what someone didn’t mean to say as being far closer to the truth than what they did.
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So many complaints boil down to the belly ache of the fragile, mortal, ignored ego in a vast and indifferent universe.
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It was no longer her absence that wounded me, but my growing indifference to it. Forgetting, however calming, was also a reminder of infidelity to what I had at one time held so dear.
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Good sex isn’t just fun, it keeps us sane and happy. Having sex with someone makes us feel wanted, alive and potent.
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We read the weird tales in newspapers to crowd out the even weirder stuff inside us.
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It’s perhaps easier now than ever before to make a good living; it’s perhaps harder than ever before to stay calm, to be free of career anxiety.
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We keep a special place in our hearts for people who refuse to be impressed by us.
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Must being in love always mean being in pain?
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Unhappiness can stem from having only one perspective to play with.
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What is a snob? A snob is anybody who takes a small part of you and uses that to come to a complete vision of who you are. That is snobbery.
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People who readily accept the need for a gym will resist that their personalities might need some work too.
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The longing for a destiny is no nowhere stronger than in our romantic life. All too often forced to share our bed with those who cannot fathom our soul, can we not be forgiven if we believe ourselves fated to stumble one day upon the man or woman of our dreams.
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Mental health: having enough safe places in your mind for your thoughts to settle.
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