Maturity: the confidence to have no opinions on many things.
ALAIN DE BOTTONNever too late to learn some embarrassingly basic, stupidly obvious things about oneself.
More Alain de Botton Quotes
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In the gap between who we wish one day to be and who we are at present, must come pain, anxiety, envy and humiliation.
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Cynics are – beneath it all – only idealists with awkwardly high standards.
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There is no such thing as work-life balance. Everything worth fighting for unbalances your life.
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Travel agents would be wiser to ask us what we hope to change about our lives rather than simply where we wish to go.
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Don’t despair: despair suggests you are in total control and know what is coming. You don’t – surrender to events with hope.
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If one felt successful, there’d be so little incentive to be successful.
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There is always the option of being emotionally lazy, that is, of quoting.
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An argument in a couple: 2 people attempting to introduce each other to important truths – by panicked shouting.
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As we write, so we build: to keep a record of what matters to us.
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Wealth is not an absolute. It is relative to desire. Every time we yearn for something we cannot afford, we grow poorer, whatever our resources. And every time we feel satisfied with what we have, we can be counted as rich, however little we may actually possess.
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The flawless object throws into perspective the mediocrity that surrounds it. We are reminded of the way we would wish things always to be and of how incomplete our lives remain.
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For paranoia about ‘what other people think’ : remember that only some hate, a very few love – and almost all just don’t care.
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Booksellers are the most valuable destination for the lonely, given the numbers of books that were written because authors couldn’t find anyone to talk to.
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Most of our childhood is stored not in photos, but in certain biscuits, lights of day, smells, textures of carpet.
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Once I began to consider everything as being of potential interest, objects released latent layers of value.
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